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I'm a male. I had a threesome with a couple( a husband and a wife). I'm straight so I only played with a female. He was unprotected during the intersperse, I used a condom. He penetrated her vagina and came inside her. Then about 5 minutes later I started penetrating her there with a condom. So, his sperm was still inside. Was it a risk for me because me penis got almost a half uncovered a couple of times. Also he came into her mouth. She wanted to give me unprotected rial after that but I refused and told her I was gonna put a condom on first. She put some saliva on her fingers and put it on the head of my penis, on urethra. That happen about 2 minutes after he ejacuated in her mouth. Was that a risk? We had a double penetration. I penetrated her vagina with a condom on, he was doing anal. He was unprotected. While doing that I felt that his balls were touching mine. He came in her anus. After we finished I saw some white fluid on my public area. I'm not sure if that was her vaginal fluid or his sperm that leaked from her anus. Was that a risk? And also she gave him oral, he came in her mouth and she probably swallowed. She kissed me a couple of times during the intercouse.  Was there any risk for HIV from the situation and details described above? Thank you.
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You're welcome. Sorry that your thread was hijacked by a spammer.
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Thank you for your explanation Teak
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Ignore the spammer, you never had an exposure.
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Thank you Teak. So from all the details I described in my initial post, I had no risk? Right.
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The semen was put in the vagina by a penis so that is not outside a host.
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I read before that the virus dies almost immediately after it leaves the body of an infected person. If the sperm is in vagina but a female is not infected, would the virus be killed after several seconds and minutes after the ejacuation?
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It doesn't and you had protected sex. What is it you aren't understanding?
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I understand that. Sorry, for asking too many questions. But I wanted to clarify something. For example if she didn't have HIV but he had , so it would be in his sperm. When he came inside her vagina , the sperm would contain virus in it. How long would it take for a virus to die inside her?
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That is the reason for the use of the condom.
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I mean if there was the virus in his sperm that was inside her vagina?
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No, that is the reason for the use of the condom.
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Thank you for an explanation. One more question, if he came inside her vagina and his sperm was inside her while I was penetrating her, would the virus already be dead, if there was a virus?
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All that needs to be covered is the head of your penis.
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Even if his sperm was in her vagina and while I was penetrating her my penis was half uncovered(the condom didn't roll down till the end), does it still mean no risk for HIV?
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You never had an exposure. HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.
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Could also get advice from other answerers?
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According to the description above., You had NO risk.
Try to relax
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