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Is this a risk?

Hi

I went to a stripclub yesterday and a girl danced for me naked. While she danced naked I touched her boobs/breasts with my left hand. After that I went back to my hotel room and I gave myself a handjob with that same hand.

Is this a risk if she touched her vagina and vaginal fluids were on her fingers and then she touched her boobs/breasts and hiv infected fluids are on her boobs and then I touch her boobs with my hand and then can the hiv be on my hand?

And if the hiv is on my hand and about 10 minutes later I give myself a handjob.. is that a risk?

I washed my hands before I gave myself a handjob.

Can this possibly be a risk?
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15695260 tn?1549593113
Your question has been answered that you did not have a risk.

We wish you the best.

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The reason why your exposure wasn't a risk is that HIV transmission is only going to happen inside a host or body.  Air inactivates the virus.  So, her vaginal fluid on your hand is exposed to air.  You can't touch the hiv virus outside and through touching it get HIV.  It just doesn't happen.  So, your exposure, therefore, was no risk.  
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Thank you very much!
So I had absolutely zero risk?
I mean I don't have to test because of this?

An infection is absolutely impossible?

Thank you very much for your time.
You keep repeating the advice and putting a question mark at the end of it. It is time for you to answer the question below, instead of you asking never ending questions.

Let's make this simple since there are only 3 ways you can get hiv. Which of the only 3 do you feel was your risk? If none, then you are just worrying about your own theory which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality.
I understand that.
So I can forget about this?
Please answer my question.
I did not do any of the 3 risks that you listed.
Then you should be able to figure out what to do instead of asking the same questions over and over. Perhaps you should see a mental health therapist to stop this repetitive behavior.
Okay but can you please confirm that I don't need to test? That an infection is impossible.
If you answer this, then I can forget about it and get peace in my mind. Thank you for your time.
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Touching someone is never a risk for HIV. You didn't have unprotected sex with her and you didn't share IV drug needles with her, therefore you had no risk.
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Hi,

Thank you for your answer.

But why is that no risk?

What if she touched her vagina and there was some infected vaginal fluid on her fingers and then she touches her boobs and after that I touch her boobs with my left hand and after that I give myself a handjob with the same hand I touched her boobs with. Then hiv can not be on my left hand and on my penis after I handjob myself?

Why is that not a risk?

Thank you very much for taking some time to answer me.
I posted the only ways that HIV infection can happen. I also told you that touching someone is never a risk. There's no reason for you to argue with me about it. You did not have a risk, period. Move on with your life and always use condoms for sex.
This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is  protected and there is zero risk
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk.
3. sharing hollow needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
Thank you very much!
So I had absolutely zero risk?
I mean I don't have to test because of this?

An infection is absolutely impossible?

Thank you very much for your time.
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