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oral sex scare
I am a 32 yr. Old male living in AZ. I have visited some adult bookstores over the last few months and performedoral sex (unprotected) and anal sex (one time, protected). In the anal sex, the condom did not come off and the guy actually pulled out while climaxing with the condom intact ( I turned and saw the condom). The next guy I was giving oral sex to told me, while I was going down on him, that he was positive and that he wanted to top me. I did not allow this and stopped the oral sex and walked away. He was using poppers which I did not partake in, and seemed drunk and/or high (from the poppers). This has made me very scared about the possibility of HIV infection, and I wanted to know if I should get tested, and if so, how long should I wait. (This happened three days ago). Please help give me some guidance.
Thanks diver. I see there are a lot of people in this boat of mine. I appreciate all the information.
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Risk is always based on assumption that the partner was positive. A negative partner has nothing to transmit. Your risk was non existent because you had protected penetration. Unprotected oral also a no risk activity as you were told.
Even if the guy said that he was positive? I mean, I didn't taste that he came in my mouth, and I don't think that he did. I guess it just freaked me out by what he said.
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