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Teak,Lizze,I hope you can see this and reply
Actually I am already a guilty person now, this is my story. 6 weeks ago, I had unprotected oral sex and protected sex with a CSW, after that I was in a deep worry and almost dying, and I swear I will not make such mistake. Then after reading Medhelp, I know that is low risk activity and I almost go back to my normal life. However, today I went to a bath center, after taking a shower, a woman (I am sure she is a CSW) gave me a massage on my whole body, then she gave me a handjob (masturbation), I was crazy, I was really crazy. And now, I am again in deep deep worry and guilty. Teak, I thank you for your reply from heart:
1. If there is any cut on her hand, or blood which I did not see, am I at a risk of HIV?
2. Is there anyone in the world who get HIV through handjob?
3. Do I really need a test now? (uprotected oral + protected intercourse with a CSW + masturbation with another CSW)
I do not know if god could forgive a person who made two mistakes, but I really thanks for your help at Medhelp!
1. If there is any cut on her hand, or blood which I did not see, am I at a risk of HIV?
2. Is there anyone in the world who get HIV through handjob?
3. Do I really need a test now? (uprotected oral + protected intercourse with a CSW + masturbation with another CSW)
I do not know if god could forgive a person who made two mistakes, but I really thanks for your help at Medhelp!
I am worried when I see something like "it is possible to catch HIV through masturbation if there are open sores on hands" on other websites because I DO NOT KNOW if there is "open sores" on her hands. This is all what I am worried about.
Teak, I have a doubt. Why can you be so sure that I have no risk? Even I myself do not know if there is any blood on the CSW's hands. You may say even there is blood on her hand, the virus die outside the body so it is still no risk. But I heard that the virus won't die immediately, it will survive for several minutes or hours. So there is possibility that there are living virus on her hands even though the amount is very little. Personally I think if there is fresh blood on her hands, the virus won't die immediately, anything is possible, isn't it? Now it's been 3 days and it is already late to seek PEP, which makes me feel more depressed. I am sorry if this makes you feel embarrassed, but currently I am really fallen into deep deep anxiety, if the final result is positive, nobody would care except myself, even if I said, Teak, you were wrong, you can say well, that is because you lied. Maybe, but I do not know whether I lied or not myself, I did not see her hands, so I do not know if there is any blood or fluid or virus etc on her hands. That's why I seek help here.
oh my god, you did good on this site and there is no reason for me to still be here to ask anything, but, I would go crazy if I do not say this.
There is nothing I can do now....
oh my god, you did good on this site and there is no reason for me to still be here to ask anything, but, I would go crazy if I do not say this.
There is nothing I can do now....
I am just too worried, since it took a long time for me to come back my normal life after my first exposure 2 months ago, and I really do not want to go through the anxiety a second time! Am I crazy? God!
and Lizzie, my last question, the handjob just happened last night, if there is any possible risk for me , it is still in time for me to take blocking medicine, your suggestion?
what part of "HIV IS NOT TRANSMITTED THROUGH A HANDJOB" are you having trouble comprehending?
Teak, the handjob just happened last night, if there is any possible risk for me , it is still in time for me to take blocking medicine, now I need your opinion, please!
pain doesnt create a risk.
kindly move along...you do not have a hiv concern and this forum has nothing left to offer
kindly move along...you do not have a hiv concern and this forum has nothing left to offer
Teak I m sorry, but could you answer my last question? The csw rubbed the head of penis roughly that I feel pain, is this really no risk?
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lizzie , could you please answer my question, the CSW rubbed the head of penis roughly that I could feel some pain, am I still at no risk?
thank you Teak, the CSW rubbed the head of penis roughly that I could feel some pain, am I still at no risk?
We base all replies as the partner being positive. You had no risk and you don't need testing.
Thank you Teak, now assume the two CSW I met are all HIV+ , regarding all my above activities, am I at any risk of being contracted? Do I need a test ? Teak, please be honest, is it impossible, zero risk, or low risk? Thank you !
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
Lizzie, you know it takes long time for me to calm down after the first exposure, so now I am more scrad than the first time. Could you tell me why handjob don't cause HIV?
of course i saw your activities above...i DO read the posts before responding.
do you see what your anxiety has done? you went from "what if she had a cut" to "what if her blood from the cut on hand". if she had a cut...YOU WOULD HAVE SEEN BLOOD ! ! !
chill out...you're not going to die from what you've described. NO ONE has ever contracted hiv from a hand job...it just doesnt happen
do you see what your anxiety has done? you went from "what if she had a cut" to "what if her blood from the cut on hand". if she had a cut...YOU WOULD HAVE SEEN BLOOD ! ! !
chill out...you're not going to die from what you've described. NO ONE has ever contracted hiv from a hand job...it just doesnt happen
Thank you Lizzie, but what if her blood from the cut on hand enter my body through urethra? I am sorry Lizzie but did you really see all my activities above? I am scared to die now hope you can understand.
hiv transmission takes place INSIDE the body...when a penis is inside a vagina / anus.
you do not need testing
you do not need testing
Thank you Lizzie, what if there is cut on her hand? Given my above activities, two exposures: one is unprotected oral and protected intercourse, the other is unprotected handjob, do I need a test now? I really need your answer, thank you!
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