I've been having several exposures across the years ( all of them condom protected) and three times they were unprotected oral sex. I haven't actually experienced ARS or ARS-related symptoms but I've recently started developing red pimples/bite-like rashes across my chest towards my stomach area. I also cough and lost some weight during these years. I'm afraid I might have caught HIV and gave it to my girlfriend ( I'm also in a relationship right now to make it worse). My rash looks exactly like the type of rash you see when you google hiv rash pictures. I'm afraid :(