HIV exposure?

[dealingwithit]

Im a 28 year old straight female and I stupidly got drunk and reconnected with an ex the other night. We started fooling around...ended up geting naked and low and behold neither of us has a condom.  My rule is no condom no sex.  So I ask him if hes been tested for STDs and he tells me yes, and we continue to make out. Well while fooling around he "slipped" into me...to which I pushed him off.  What is my risk of STD/HIV?  He did not ejaculate in me or at all that night.  

I have an annual exam in about a month... which I always get tested.  BUT it will be too early to have an accurrate result for this incident, won't it?

Please advise, I'm trying to remail calm.

Thanks.

[dealingwithit]

What is the risk for this exposure though?  Is it high? I dont think anyone should lie about their status and I flat out asked him about his.  I just want to know the risk/percentage?

I will get tested when I go for my annual and then I will do so 2 months later to hit the 3 month mark.

trying to remain calm.

Thanks.

[chirag_neoliberal]

If he is HIV negative then you are not at risk.

But there can be a possibilities that  he is unaware of his status.He may not have tested for HIV or other STD's(faking........sorry if I offend you) ,could have infected himself after his negative HIV status results or the HIV virus would be in incubation stage during testing which would have attributed for his false negative results (if tested before 3 months window period) and he assumes to be HIV negative.

So better get tested.Do ELISA for HIV1/2 after 3 months after the exposure.

Stay calm and don't worry.


Always use condoms and never share needles
  Chirag