Potential Hiv exposure? Stressed on first day of 2019.

[Gregdoug]

Hi on new years eve i foolishly went with my friends to a massage *** brothel in malaysia. The female sex worker was 23 yrs old vietnamese. My exposure is:

1. B2b massage with brief contact with her genitals as she glided over my body with massage oil. We were both nude. There was no penetration.

2. She offered oral sex without a condom but i declined as she had only one condom for sex.

3. I had protected vaginal sex and the condom did not slipoff.

4. I DID NOT CHECK FOR BREAKAGE OF CONDOM BUT BEFORE SHE DISPOSED MY CONDOM I HELD MY CONDOM UP AND SAW MY SEMEN COLLECTED AT THE BOTTOM OF THE CONDOM. I usually fill the condom up with water but this time i did not. I just merely  observed by holding it up. I saw my semen collected in the condom and she then threw it away.

5. I do not know if the condom was a good or lousy brand.

Am i at any risk of hiv from these exposures? Thanks. Pls reply asap im stressed

[Gregdoug]

Thanks pagal! Anyone else has any other opinions. Especially the condom. If the semen collected was at the reservoir tip all was good right?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

This is not an opinion-based forum.  Our members have thoroughly explained the risks for HIV, and the fact that you did not have a risk for HIV.  There isn't anything more for our members to say about your no-risk event.

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[Pagal_Guy]

Sexually only unprotected penetrative vaginal or anal sex poze HIV risk.

Your situation is straight forward i. e.  No Risk

Stop Thinking and Move On
Enjoy New Year and forget about it.

[newhope1991]

are you Malaysian? Im Malaysian too, you went to massage palour with service? dont worry, i dont see you are having any risk and about the condom brand, you should not worry because massage palour needs customer and they dont give lousy condoms.

[Gregdoug]

Hi yes. I have never had sex for awhile now let alone a prostitute. But im very concern. How do i know if my condom did actually break. I was very calm until i thought of the fact that i didnt check the condom. I saw semen collected at the bottom of the condom though. Pls elaborate and advice! Thanks

[newhope1991]

no risk for your situation as experts in this forum always say that if there is break of condom it will be wide exposing your penis. zero risk for oral sex. enjoy your new year bro, you had safe sex.

[Gregdoug]

Hey thank you for answering. Happy new year to you too! Lastly, Any others would like to advise? I would like a second opinion as well

[newhope1991]

semen was collected in the condom reservoir is normal. no breakage of condom, anyway the expert of this board will advise the same too. chill! let them advise you.

[Gregdoug]

Ok thanks! Usually we dont have to fill condoms up with water right? Any other advise? I saw my semen in the condom while i held it up.... seems normal