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Hiv after sex with Eescorte?

Hi, I  met an Internet Escort in Europe. At Internet, she says that she is not offering anal, not sex without condom and not CIM (Cum in mouth).

Well, when we met, we did take a shower. She then fingered her vagina and then did masturbate me. Then she gave me unprotected oral sex for almost 40 second. I was also stupid so I licked her genital part for a few seconds and I also fingered her for 10 seconds. Then she put condom on me and I cum inside her with condom (I can not remember that the condom was broken, I do not think so).

I have healthy gums without sores. No STI. But I am biting my lips when they are dry (but without visible bleeding). I also think that I had cuts on my fingers.  I am also circumcised if that matters. I do not know if she had sores/bleeding from her mouth/lips or fingers.

Three days after this episod I got a red sign at my hard palate and had a little bit pharyngitt, but it was over after almost 6 days (no fever). I have no more symptoms now (it has been 18 days).

What is my risks of getting HIV?

I am very thankful if you could answer
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370181 tn?1595629445
You never had a risk for HIV from the fingering even with small cuts.
You never had a risk for HIV from the protected sex, and do not need to test, but if it will give you peace of mind, then by all means, test.

Oral sex is not a risk for HIV but can be a risk for other STD's.

Your cough and laryngitis are most probably just a cold, not symptoms of HIV.
If they persist longer than a week, see your doctor and mention the oral sex.
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Thank you. I am scared for the oralsex and fingering part, was I safe or is there any risk that for getting HIV if I had small, non-bleeding cuts in my fingers?

By thw way, yesterday (22 days after the episod), I got dry cough and still have dry cough. I also think I may have a little pharyngitt,  but I am not sure. Still no fewer and no symptoms in my mouth or my skin.

What do you think? I am going to take HIV-test but I still have to wait.
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What she has is irrevelant as you used a condom thus no risk.
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Thank you so much for the answer, but do you say that because you think she was not HIV-infected due to her services she is usually offering or because of the sexual-act?
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370181 tn?1595629445
NO RISK.

You would KNOW if the condom broke.
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