Hiv or other stds risk from protected oral sex and protected vaginal sex?

[nervous181]

Hi all.
Once again I managed to be a stupid idiot. I put myself in a situation with a csw from the Baltic region.
She was about 25 years old, looked healthy and clean. The situation played out as followed:
She gave me a long and vigorous blow job -with condom protection. And then we had protected vaginal sex -she was on top until we switched to doggy for a couple of minutes. Right before I ejaculated I pulled out and removed the condom very fast (with the same hand I used to finger her vagina). Ejaculated on her back and wiped her and me with a napkin she gave me.

Additional info: She provided the condom, used her mouth to put it on. She wanted to perform oral on me without condom, but when I said no and asked for condom she looked surprised and did a quick check of my penis head by pulling back the foreskin. She also bit my nipples a couple of times.

I tested negative for hiv 1/2 and syphillis at 42 and 50 days after the encounter.
Test was: INSTI Multiplex HIV-1 / HIV-2 / Syphilis Antibody Test.

Now I might have a chest rash, maybe because of manscaping (trimming) the chest hair? Itching and slight red.
My wife just got diarrhea and intense stomach cramps that lasted about 5-6 hours.

I’m scared senseless that I might have gotten hiv or something else?

[CurfewX]

The only activities that could put you at risk for HIV are:
1) unprotected, penetrative anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles.

Since you did not do either of those, you had NO RISK for HIV and you do not need a test. Whatever is causing your rash has nothing to do with HIV.

[Indian1975]

You had no risk for HIV.