I am afraid of dying for I still young

[Woshiyin]

Sir, I am a male live in Thailand. 4weeks ago I had sex with two girls for an hour and half. This is my first sex time.  I think they are the carrier of HIV for now I cannot contact with them. During the sex, i used four condoms. But two of them I used for twice. The last condom, when I had sex with one girl, I found the condom slipped off (I think the reason that I put the condom on reverse.) That means the secretion of the girl in condom has touched my penis for nearly 5 minute. Worse, the head of my penis may touch the girl's vagina for nearly 5 seconds.
24th Sept I had Gingivitis, and then 25th Sept I had lymph nodes in my jaw. Until now the lymph nodes still exist but smaller.
Sir, may I ask you three questions:  
1, whether my risk of affect HIV is large or small?
2, how much risk is when the secretion in the condom touches the penis for a short time?
And how much risk is when the head of penis has a short touch to the vagina?
3, whether the lymph nodes in my jaw can show I had got HIV? Thank you very much!

[nikchin]

Good to know that :)

[Woshiyin]

today, go to Bangkok anonymous clinic check hiv, negative. Doctor told me I am ok

[nikchin]

Hi,

You have not clearly mentioned your activities. Still, if your penis was bare exposed (penis head not covered with a condom) to vaginal secretions when it was inside the vagina, then this puts you at risk.

Regards,
Nikhil