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I had a fever for four days and it felt like hiv ars
On 11/22, a cws gave me a handjob.
She used Lubricating fluid and had a lot of white bubbles on my penis.
I was scared that she was using a whole bottle of HIV semen as lubrication.
no sex with her .
On 12/17, I started to have a fever of 39 degrees. It has lasted for four days. I went to the doctor and took medicine. Every time I took Panadol, it would go back to 37 degrees for 5 hours. It felt like HIV ars.
I am so scared that I will be the first person to be infected with HIV due to handjob.
Can someone help me?
She used Lubricating fluid and had a lot of white bubbles on my penis.
I was scared that she was using a whole bottle of HIV semen as lubrication.
no sex with her .
On 12/17, I started to have a fever of 39 degrees. It has lasted for four days. I went to the doctor and took medicine. Every time I took Panadol, it would go back to 37 degrees for 5 hours. It felt like HIV ars.
I am so scared that I will be the first person to be infected with HIV due to handjob.
Can someone help me?
Most of your posts were deleted because you wouldn't listen to the advice. You thought you would be the first infection from breast milk, now the first human hand job infection. See a mental health therapist for your hiv fixation, and maybe consider not visiting sex workers if you are going to agonize for months afterwards.
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/suck-nipple-mike-or-blood-HIV-risk/show/3040440
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/suck-nipple-mike-or-blood-HIV-risk/show/3040440
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (maybe blood, maybe cuts, hiv touching penis, hand, etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
hiv has been around for 40 years, so someone (like you) isn't going to randomly become the first person in the world to get hiv from 2 different ways that no one else got hiv from. That is why you should see a therapist, because you believe the impossible will happen 2 times, and just to you.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
hiv has been around for 40 years, so someone (like you) isn't going to randomly become the first person in the world to get hiv from 2 different ways that no one else got hiv from. That is why you should see a therapist, because you believe the impossible will happen 2 times, and just to you.
Maybe you can rethink about this and get over it by yourself, but if not then see a therapist.
Thank you for your answer, it was very helpful to me and I think I should keep going.
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