HIV from oral sex with positive guy

[sh71386]

I asked a question last night but did not get a response. I am a 30 year old white male. I received and gave oral sex to a man who was white and same age as me who told me after the act that he has HIV. He said he has been on antivirals  for a long time and has not been detectable. There was no ejaculate from him when I gave him oral. There may have been pre cum from him tho. My oral hygiene is good I didn't have any recognizable abrasions or cuts in my mouth. I did not ejacualte  in his mouth either. We also deeply kissed for several minutes. I haven't done anything sexually for at least a year and know I was completely clean prior to all this. It's been almost two weeks and nothing is noticeable anywhere on my genitals or body. I realize that HIV is something that takes quite sometime to detect. Im just concerned and wonder my risk? I'm so offended that he couldn't tell me this before we had oral. I take my health serious and would never intentionally do this to someone without their consent. Lesson greatly learned I guess. One I hope that I don't have baggage from. Hope to get insight on this, thanks.

[malbat]

Unprotected oral carries no risk for HIV transmission. But it does carry risk for other STDs. Looking at your previous postings, perhaps a change of sexual practice is in need. Using a condom is just wise to avoid STDs and also to spare you these unnecessary anxiety.