I want to find out my risk

[Geo77]

Hello.  I just wanted to see what the chances were of me getting HIV.  For my assurance, I am going to give a lot of the details.  I am a young bi-sexual male and I performed oral sex on an older gay male.  There was no ejaculation.  I performed oral sex on him before and was tested negative for HIV, but I do not know his recent sexual encounters.  He tells me he is clean and HIV negative.  However, his chest was red when I performed oral sex on him.  I thought that might have been the HIV rash.  I also brushed my teeth about 10 minutes before I went to his house, possibly causing my gums to bleed.  I performed oral sex on him and there was no ejaculation, however, I am sure there was pre-ejaculate.  He ended up ejaculating on his stomach.  It was EXACTLY one week later when I woke up with a 102 degree fever and body aches.  The fever would go away by the evening and then the next day, I would wake up with another high fever.  It continued for about 6 days.  Four days into the fever, I ended up having diarrhea.  That lasted two days.   Not once did I have swollen glands.  I wanted to know what my risk of HIV was and if anyone thought I contracted it.  Many people say that the fever was irrelevant, but I just wanted to make sure.

[Geo77]

oh really? I always thought there was a small risk with oral sex.  But thanks for your responses!

Also, now I have a canker sore on the roof of my mouth. Should I be worried?

[LIZZIE LOU]

giving and/or receiving oral sex does not put one at risk for contracting hiv.

[diver58]

No risk in the situation you described. Move on