Chance of getting HIV from oral sex

[Mh1991]

Hi everyone.

I have
unprotected bj from a sex worker on Jan 22

another unprotected bj from another sex worker on Jan 28

And unprotected bj and protected vaginal sex from another sex worker on Feb 7

On Feb 9 I find out there was discharge on my penis. I came to lab check same day for STDs and HIV ab/ag test. The tests turn out everything negative. Doctor gave me doxycyclin for a week, the discharge stopped couple days after. However, I had protected vaginal sex couple days after and I found discharge on my penis again.

I came back for another STDs and HIV ag/ab test again 2 days ago on Fed 09.  HiV turned out negative, still waiting for STDs result. But I feel some HIV symptoms like muscle pain, white tongue and small rash.

My question is the HIV ab/ag is conclusive after 30 days?

[AnxiousNoMore]

Oral is zero risk and you can't get hiv when you used a condom. No risk=no ARS=no hiv infection. Therefore you are wasting your time posting on an hiv forum.
See your doc because this is not a discharge forum, and you don't have any medical training so you can't diagnose what the problem is - if there even is a problem. The highest probability  is your symptoms are just in your imagination.

[Mh1991]

My concern is if I had any STDs from the first oral sex, would it have been more chance to get HIV from the 2 oral sex after?

[AnxiousNoMore]

If you sat in your car in your garage without the seat belt on would you have more chance of dying in a high speed car accident than if you wore one while sitting in your garage? No.
Your idea is illogical.

[AnxiousNoMore]

My point is you can be involved in a high speed accident if you are sitting in your garage. Reread all the advice.

[Mh1991]

Sorry for being annoying. I read some articles on the internet saying that the chance of infection would be higher when people have STDs. Just want to clarify

[AnxiousNoMore]

You have a problem with logic. Since you can't get hiv from oral you should have moved on from hiv fears by now. Instead you keep asking if there are ways to get hiv from oral. I'm not sure why you keep asking questions here, because you disagree with all the answers and claim that you are the only one who understands hiv - despite having no medical training you claim that you review articles and became an expert.

[Mh1991]

I am not trying to be an expert, you can read again. I was my concern and I just want to know your opinion on that. Sorry again if it annoy you

[Sara_MHModerator]

Your question has been fully answered.

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[GuitarRox]

No risk. No more over questioning. You've been answered. The only risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Nothing you add, say or think will make any of what your exposures were a risk.

[GuitarRox]

And just to humor you, what it means if something increases your risk is if you do one of the three things above (unprotected vaginal, unprotected anal or share injection needles), the low risk from a one time exposure with THOSE THREE things is a little bit more. Like instead of 1 percent, it is 2. This does NOT make non risks risks!

[Mh1991]

Thank you very much. It makes me feel better now. What's is time frame for HIV 4th Gen conclusive anyway?

[Mh1991]

Thank you very much. It makes me feel better now. What's is time frame for HIV 4th Gen conclusive anyway?

[GuitarRox]

no

[AnxiousNoMore]

My point is you can be involved in a high speed accident if you are sitting in your garage. Reread all the advice.