Ars oral

[Mandy101010]

I had brief oral sex with man who maybe pos . He was flacid . 2.5 weeks later I have vomiting ,fever one day of 100.4 ,very bad nausea no fever now still nauseous. Very worried.

[Sara_MHModerator]

Our members have accurately advised you that oral sex is not a risk for HIV.  We are now closing this discussion.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk and your tests were a waste of time.
HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
People cough on your lips and door knobs so you got the flu just like billions of other negative people.

[Mandy101010]

Thank you for responding but I’m worried if he was pos and my symptoms and timing .

[AnxiousNoMore]

Not sure what is hard for you to figure out about my advice. Do you think I meant there is no risk above only if the other party was negative?
Regarding your symptoms, reread about got.

[laxus2012]

I don't believe you read any of the answer provided or you'd know that you had zero risk regardless of any variables.

[Mandy101010]

Does Teak also believe this to be true? what about ulcers or cuts? My symptoms are worrying. Is there a Dr forum?

[laxus2012]

your symptoms are not worrying, your anxiety is. Teak no longer posts, and the drs do not post either. your still adding useless what ifs that I told you would not change anything. you've been given all the advice needed to protect yourself from HIV, and know how it is transmitted. symptoms are not used to diagnose HIV ever, and it doesnt matter anyways because your encounter is zero risk, so it's impossible to have symptoms.

[Mandy101010]

Thank you for the advice but some Drs and forums are saying there is some risk . My symptoms at the right time too .