Unprotected oral sex and protected vagina sex.

[Darren4u]

Hi Doctors,

I am Darren. 2 Weeks back i had unprotected Oral sex with a CSW and i came in her mouth twice. There was niether Visible blood nor any scratch/cut/wound/ulcer on my penis.

I also had protected vagina sex with her and came outside both the times. I am sure that niether the condom broke nor slipped off.

I was tested HIV NEGATIVE last month. My last exposure was in Dec 2013.

Since this episode i am in extreme depression....cannot sleep , eat and unable to focus on my work.

Can i catch HIV virus after this episode. Please suggest.

[Darren4u]

Your confidence has put me back on track....else..i was out of my mind...

Thank you so very much .....

[firefly1987]

I will take it into account

[Teak]

You don't tell people to test for peace of mind for no risk issues, you give them the facts. False positives have lead to suicides.

[firefly1987]

I said "for peace of mind"

[Teak]

Move along. You just told him above to test when he never had an exposure.

[firefly1987]

How is that gonna be a risk? o_O

You are negative, move along.

[Darren4u]

Thanks Teak...I don't know how to thank you guys......out of words
i wish....i would meet and hug you......

[Teak]

Move along, you had protected sex.

[Darren4u]

I mean ,during vagina intercourse  if i pull myself out just about few seconds to cum and ejaculate outside.....will this case be considered as an exposure.

[Teak]

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[firefly1987]

How can ejaculating outside be a risk? If you are unsure of your status, just take a test for mind peace.

[Darren4u]

I just want to educate myself more so that i can aware my friends as well

What does it mean by an exposure specially in case of insertive vagina sex.

Can ejaculating outside be considered as exposure?  

Also I read that getting HIV from HIV pos female to male is having very low risk but from male to female is high risk.

[Darren4u]

I think the nice people like you are few...

Thank you so much

[Teak]

Not all doctors are educated in HIV.

[Darren4u]

Thank you so much .......u guys are great.....

But I am still not able to understand why then the doctor I consulted did not tell me all these things despite paying the consultataion fee...

Why he said its low to moderate risk and test (some combo test ) is must 28 days after exposure.

[Teak]

A slipped condom does not put one at risk of contracting HIV. Only the head of the penis needs to remained covered to prevent HIV transmission.

[Darren4u]

Thank You so much .....medinfosurfer !!

Seems i can sleep today without pills ................

[medinfosurfer]

Protected sex is considered safer sex.
it is called "safer" because condoms are not 100 percent cause it can be slipped or ripped.
it is 100 percent if neither of those happened.
if it ripped, it wouldve been visible because the rubber is elastic with such thin materials.
also for your correct condom issue...
most condoms are made out of latex these days. Latex condoms are the MOST effective. Lambskin however doesnt work against std.
think of it this way....
latex condoms are CHEAPER THAN Lambskin and protects std.
would a hooker buy a cheap effective one or an expensive non effective?
you my friend are safe...
plus it's singapore. Anything bad is illegal there.
have a good night!!!

[Darren4u]

Thanks Teak..

Your reply has given huge relief to me......

Thank you so much !!!

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.

[Darren4u]

Should i go for test then......Can i declare myself as virus free

[Teak]

You can guarantee that the condom was an approved condom. CSWs don't care about your health, they are protecting themselves from you.

[Darren4u]

Thanks Teak.... extremly sorry to bother you again.

I am not worried about Oral sex.I am more worried about insertive vagina sex....though its was protected ...but i am not sure about the type of condom used...it was put by the CSW..not sure whether it was correct or not.But it did not break and did not slip.

But as per the doctor protected sex is also NOT safe.....

Also i don't know the HIV status of CSW......my mental level is totally disturbed.......

please advise....

[Teak]

Kirstie_MHModerator Feb 06, 2014
We can't tell you what to believe, but we can tell you that our forums aren't a venue for debate over our stance that oral sex carries no risk for HIV.  Our stance will not change unless we receive definitive scientific evidence to the contrary.