Maybe Maybe Not

[diditgoin]

Hi, would appreciate your advice.
In West Africa recently I ended up after a night out going home with a girl from a bar. I am HIV aware and to be honest completely paranoid about HIV in general but I still ended up going home with a hooker in West Africa - crazy.

I told the girl I would not have sex with her, she gave me a blow job and then sat on top of me, I am 99% sure that I did not penetrate her, I was conciuos that my **** was near or rubbing agianst her vagina, however I was drunk and even though I am 99% confident I did not penetrate her my mind keeps saying what if what if what if I penetrated her for a few seconds. This happened 5 days ago and I have been fraught with worry ever since.

[Uniquelymen]

Hi there,

Symptoms are not a good indication if you are infected.  Take a test at 12 weeks after the exposure, that would be conclusive.

I think your risk is very low, cos you are drunk if not would be almost nil.

Cheers!

[diditgoin]

Well two weeks after the fact, i have started to notice pain in my left armpit and last night noticed a rash on my right arm. Not sleeping well even though I am still 99% sure I did not penetrate the girl but pretty sure there was contact between my penis and her vagina

[diver58]

When you are that cautious about HIV, I suggest you to keep peg of alcohol and woman separate, they do not mix and always leave you in a state,,,, was it like that ,,, or was it not like that,,,, ,may be or may not be,,, driving a car or a lady,,, while drunk is equally risky to your life.

[troggs]

Diditgoin-your risk for HIV contraction was a low one from what you've described, but one thing i always like to advise people who are sexually active to test for all STD's & HIV on a yearly basis, as a precaution. I hope i was of help to you...