We are sorry you are so anxious and afraid. Please review the information our members have provided about what the actual risks are for HIV and please note, they have expressed you did not have a risk.
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I'll just chime in to agree with CurfewX. There is no risk involved with your activity. We know a lot about HIV these days. How people get it is very clear. You didn't have a risk. Wear a condom for anal or vaginal sex and don't share IV drug needles and you'll never have to worry about HIV.
Your chances of getting HIV through your finger are ZERO. It doesn't matter what the situation is. You will never contract HIV from fingering, or through your finger.
HIV is transmitted by
1) having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous drug needles with other people.
Nothing else that you can think of is a risk for HIV.