kiss anus

[xys24]

I'm gay, on September 25th, I gave a gay kiss to the anus, and I'm very nervous now, and I hope to get help,
I gave him kiss  anus 2 minutes, then use finger his anus  one minute.     rectal mucous out his anus, I kiss   anus 2 minutes again, I have a mouth canker sores, no broken no bleeding and pain, have a tooth ache, and the tooth gum is swollen, occasionally brush your teeth bleeding at ordinary times. Check the Internet, the HIV virus in the rectum mucus is very high, very afraid, I have the following worry
1. Does rectal mucus touch the mouth ulcer and is there a risk of HIV infection?
2.Does the rectal mucus enter the mouth and the HIV is infected by the small wound caused by swollen gums or brushing teeth?
3 what is my HIV risk?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Your situation was carefully considered, and as you were advised, you had NO RISK for HIV from this event.  There isn't any additional information our members can add to this no-risk event.

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[xys24]

My behavior is very special, please understand my behavior carefully, help me again, thank you very much

[xys24]

Sorry, my English is very, very poor. Rectal mucus enters the mouth and has an ulcer in the mouth. If he's HIV, how big is my risk?

[xys24]

Help  me

[AnxiousNoMore]

You are safe from HIV because you can't get HIV from kissing the anus. You don't even need to test.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also instantly in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from kissing. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with but you didn't do that so you had no risk. This sentence is all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV.
Even with blood, lactation cuts, rashes, burns etc air and saliva do not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so nothing you can add will make your situation a risk.
If concerned about your mouth ulcer or other mouth health concerns you should see your doctor, but it has nothing to do with HIV. Also you can check out the std forum which will have the best answers on std.

[xys24]

Thank you very much for your reply     I read every word carefully I understand what you mean，

I will stay safe sex in the future
But I have two doubts
1.Rectal mucus is not a normal body fluid. It has higher levels of virus than semen   Can air and saliva completely inhibit the activity of the virus？
2.I consulted the local CDC.
They think I'm risky，Because the rectal mucus enters the mouth, it can touch the mouth ulcer.  Even if the ulcer doesn't break without bleeding，There's also the possibility of infection    I'm a little worried. Is the local CDC too conservative?

Am I thinking too much?