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what is the risk or chances of getting hiv ?
Hello i am male i am very scared regarding risk of getting exposed.I had protected sex with CSW last(protected) around march 16th,2020 but before that on 29th feb just after i recovered from chicken pox i had protected sex but condom broke and i pulled out immidietly and then got tested april 30th(rapid immunochromatographic card test) and june 17th(rapid elisa ozone kit test) both were rapid antibody tests and results were negative.The doctor also said that nothing to worry.But after that about a month later in july or august i had protected vaginal intercourse with a lady of unknown status(though she claims to be clean but i doubt) and in the same month(july or august) i tried to do fo unprotected vaginal sex with her another day but did not penetrate just touched her vagina with my penis tip 2 3 times and then see sucked(without condom) me for 1-2 mins and then i masturbated and ejaculated on her belly after that in oct 7th 2020 she again sucked(without condom) me 2-3 times each for around 20-30 seconds and then i rubbed against her breasts and ejaculated on her breast after that again on 14th oct 2020 she sucked(this time protected with a condom) and then i sat on her and masturbated and ejaculated on her face.After all these on 19th nov 2020 i started to have loose motion(10-12 times in 3 days) after that i recovered from it with a week using otc medicines and then 2-3 days after i recovered i got a ulcer on my upper palate and also recovered from it within a week using some oinments,antibiotics and vitamins prescribed by dentist and now i have rashes minor on my hands(6-7 pink slightly raised and some very tiny and one or two like cherry angioma spots that suddenly appeared out of nowhere and are there now all were non itchy but those pink and small ones are almost gone using some cream prescribed by dermatlogist) and face(pink slighlty raised pimple like and on left cheek i have dark spot which feels a bit tender and sometimes fluid filled small bump come and then go away from it) and also i have some whitish tongue when rubbed sometimes little amount of sticky things come up and sometimes nothing is there even in morning when i wake up tongue appears clear only and also that dermatologist prescribed me (2nos for 4 weeks)zentel 400 tabs and some antifungal tabs(1every week for 4 weeks).Besides i am having loose watery stool(first my stomaches very much like crunching and then) every two three days after dinner and daily normal stools around 2 to 3 times but each time feel like again i have to go and also after urination it feels like incomplete and urine keeps dripping and tip of penis feels something coming out(all the time) but when i see at times i can see anything or sometimes a bit clear liquid(urine i guess).I have no burning sensation itching nothing but in the mentime my penis used to itch a bit at times and also there was slight red very tiny dots on the glans which went away(especially after taking the antifungal tab).
So that was my story in full details.
Apologies for such long description.
I am very much worried regarding the condition like freaking out almost read all the articles seen all vedios on youtube regatding hiv/AIDS.
So please somebody some expert(preferably doctors and specialists) can you tell me what are the chances that i am ****** up and i am in hell?
Please somebody plz plz plz help me wether i need to test or not and what could be my chances of getting screwed considering the incidents that i had mentioned?I am freaking out lyk anything please docs,experts etc etc please help me by providing some explanation and advice.
So that was my story in full details.
Apologies for such long description.
I am very much worried regarding the condition like freaking out almost read all the articles seen all vedios on youtube regatding hiv/AIDS.
So please somebody some expert(preferably doctors and specialists) can you tell me what are the chances that i am ****** up and i am in hell?
Please somebody plz plz plz help me wether i need to test or not and what could be my chances of getting screwed considering the incidents that i had mentioned?I am freaking out lyk anything please docs,experts etc etc please help me by providing some explanation and advice.
We are closing your thread as at this point, you have been fully and accurately informed that your one risk of condom break was excluded for HIV transmission when you conclusively tested negative and all other activity were no risks. Your symptoms are not HIV related. See your doctor to discuss their origin but HIV is not the cause.
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Anxiousnomore summed it very nicely. The first thing you wrote of was a risk. Broken condoms are a true risk. The only way adults get HIV is to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing iv drug needles. Broken condoms equate to unprotected sex. BUT, as aniousnomore said, your test was conclusive and you didn't get HIV. There is less than a 1 perecent chance to get HIV from a single unprotected episode.
EVERYTHING ELSE as axiousnomore says is NOT a risk. No details you add. No illnesses or this or that you've experienced changes this. You don't have HIV from anything you've said
EVERYTHING ELSE as axiousnomore says is NOT a risk. No details you add. No illnesses or this or that you've experienced changes this. You don't have HIV from anything you've said
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what about the fact that i am on medication of mild asthma(i used budamate 200 tarnshaler capsules for about 6 months and stopped using it in around feb 2020 but i am constantly using montair 10 tablet a single tablet a day after dinner) does these medications affect the antibody tests? as i read somewhere that chemotherapy ans well as medications that lpwer the immune system might delay the production of antibodies hence might give false negatives. So do i need to test after 6months mark or 3mnths(12 weeks) is more than enough? and can you throw some light on the comment that i put on anxiousnomore's reply where i had mentioned point by point. I need advice from some expert or specially some doctor related to this field.
What if my assumptions are true that the lady is posotive then what are my chances? do i need to test or not after jan 14th(12th week mark). It would be great if ypu can pull in some doc or expert(researcher guy) so that they give their opinion..
please help sir..waiting for you assistance any doc or specialist please.
What if my assumptions are true that the lady is posotive then what are my chances? do i need to test or not after jan 14th(12th week mark). It would be great if ypu can pull in some doc or expert(researcher guy) so that they give their opinion..
please help sir..waiting for you assistance any doc or specialist please.
What about the fact that you had no risk? You are glossing over this and it sounds anxiety related that you are not accepting the answers. Your medication does not change the fact that you had no risk. You tested after the ONE risk you had and it was NEGATIVE. And it was in a conclusive time frame so that you have to trust the results. If you can not, this is a mental health issue as you are choosing to ignore tests that are factually correct that you did not get HIV. You do not need to test again. And everything after that was NO RISK. I've read all of your extremely lengthy posts. No, you do not need to test again and NO you could not get HIV from the activity.
1.i tried to penetrate the vagina while i was not wearing a condom but i could not as i was hitting somewhere(may be the bone or hard part just above the hole of the vagina) else instead of the proper hole.I tried very hard pushed it very hard to penetrate but could not because i could not hit the hole instead i hit somewhere else around the vagina.
I also had protected vaginal intercourse for around 4-5 mins her vagina seemed to be very loose and i was easily getting in and out unlike the case(when i tried to penetrate without protection but failed may be as i was hitting somewhere on the side instead of the hole of vagina but my pennis was erect and i believe that the tip(of my pennis) pushed very hard on her vaginal area and also touched the region and dont know wether there was vaginal fluid or anything may be fluid was there.)
2. I did unprotected oral sex where i was the insertive partner but for about 20-30 seconds for 2-3 times one day and for about a minute i.e 60 seconds some other day but both was unprotected oral i.e she sucked me but i dint ejaculate.Consider she has ulcers or cyts in her mouth which might also bleed as well.
3. I am not aware of her status and she claims to be negative but she said that she has never tested for it but she believes to be negative but i doubt as she had multiple partners over many years and she belongs to worker class who does household work and currently she stays with a fisherman and that person also mingles with many girls.So, considering her as positive i.e. she is hiv+
So considering these cases specifically these scenarios if we consider still there is a no chance or zero risk? I dont need to be tested?But everywhere i read like oral has some chance what about that?
So please consider the above 3 points specifically and then tell me advice me and it would be great if you can ask some specialist or doc abd then tell me.Please dont mind but i hope u can understand how much freaked out i am. Please tell me and please try to consult or asj from a doc. Please Please Please. and do consider the above three points specifically please let me know and tell me please sir
I also had protected vaginal intercourse for around 4-5 mins her vagina seemed to be very loose and i was easily getting in and out unlike the case(when i tried to penetrate without protection but failed may be as i was hitting somewhere on the side instead of the hole of vagina but my pennis was erect and i believe that the tip(of my pennis) pushed very hard on her vaginal area and also touched the region and dont know wether there was vaginal fluid or anything may be fluid was there.)
2. I did unprotected oral sex where i was the insertive partner but for about 20-30 seconds for 2-3 times one day and for about a minute i.e 60 seconds some other day but both was unprotected oral i.e she sucked me but i dint ejaculate.Consider she has ulcers or cyts in her mouth which might also bleed as well.
3. I am not aware of her status and she claims to be negative but she said that she has never tested for it but she believes to be negative but i doubt as she had multiple partners over many years and she belongs to worker class who does household work and currently she stays with a fisherman and that person also mingles with many girls.So, considering her as positive i.e. she is hiv+
So considering these cases specifically these scenarios if we consider still there is a no chance or zero risk? I dont need to be tested?But everywhere i read like oral has some chance what about that?
So please consider the above 3 points specifically and then tell me advice me and it would be great if you can ask some specialist or doc abd then tell me.Please dont mind but i hope u can understand how much freaked out i am. Please tell me and please try to consult or asj from a doc. Please Please Please. and do consider the above three points specifically please let me know and tell me please sir
You really don't need to keep writing novels here. You had ZERO risk after the condom break and you tested negative for the condom break. Move on.
also consider the protected vaginal intercourse mentioned in point no.1.
this is because i red everywhere that condom also doesnt provide 100% protection.I dont know wether i used it perfectly but it is sure that it did not break or slip of as i ejaculated inside and when i pulled out i saw that my semen was inside the condom only and wasnt dropping out.....consider her as positive only.
please respond and explain me cobsidering all these what should i do please sir.
waiting for you to seek some expert opinion and then tell me
i an getting red rashes on my ******* face . Please sir i beg of you please seek from some expert or doc and tell me.
this is because i red everywhere that condom also doesnt provide 100% protection.I dont know wether i used it perfectly but it is sure that it did not break or slip of as i ejaculated inside and when i pulled out i saw that my semen was inside the condom only and wasnt dropping out.....consider her as positive only.
please respond and explain me cobsidering all these what should i do please sir.
waiting for you to seek some expert opinion and then tell me
i an getting red rashes on my ******* face . Please sir i beg of you please seek from some expert or doc and tell me.
thank you sir.
but all the above events i mentioned occured after i got tested and after these events i did not test as i am ******* scared as hell. So should i test or not. Am i fine are the symptoms out of something else. olease tell me
but all the above events i mentioned occured after i got tested and after these events i did not test as i am ******* scared as hell. So should i test or not. Am i fine are the symptoms out of something else. olease tell me
REGARDING THE BROKEN CONDOM
A duo test is conclusive after 4 weeks and any other after 12. Your only risk was the condom break in Feb so your test proves you don't have hiv.
REGARDING EVERYTHING OTHER THAN THE BROKEN CONDOM EPISODE, these details of your story are irrelevant as you had no risk as outlined below.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( mouth, saliva, maybe blood, maybe cuts etc.). No hiv worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
A duo test is conclusive after 4 weeks and any other after 12. Your only risk was the condom break in Feb so your test proves you don't have hiv.
REGARDING EVERYTHING OTHER THAN THE BROKEN CONDOM EPISODE, these details of your story are irrelevant as you had no risk as outlined below.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( mouth, saliva, maybe blood, maybe cuts etc.). No hiv worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
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"please .... provide ... advice." ok, move on back to your happy life since you don't have hiv.
yes regarding your 3 qstns i mentioned that i tried to penetrate without a condom only once which was in july or august i cant remember in which i tried to penetrate but could not and i was just pressing hard or hitting hard on her outer skin or bone near hear vagina but surely i din't penetrate just hit somewhere on the side or up bt when i felt i am unable to penetrate and then i realised i should not as there is no condom so i went for oral ssex and she sucked....so was that hitting her vaginalbarea or pressing on that area with my pennis a risk? can it happen from that way? please tell me....i know i am irritating and annoyingly asking qstns but can you please give a clarity on the same? advance thnx fr your patience plz help plz and what about the oral exposures that i fid plz provide some light these two cases please
To be straight forward the answer to your question is no but to be specific and detailed please consider the following and tell me the probability
1.i tried to penetrate the vagina while i was not wearing a condom but i could not as i was hitting somewhere else instead of the proper hole.I tried very hard pushed it very hard to penetrate but could not because i could not hit the hole instead i hit somewhere else around the vagina.
2. I did unprotected oral sex where i was the insertive partner
3. I am not aware of her status and she claims to be negative but she said that she has never tested for it but she believes to be negative but i doubt as she had multiple partners over many years and she belongs to worker class who does household work and currently she stays with a fisherman and that person also mingles with many girls.
4.i also tried to do anal with her but that was protected(i was wearing 2 condoms).in this case also i tried very hard pushed very very hard but could not penetrate at all though i pushed on her anal hole very hard.
5.i also had protected vaginal intercourse for around 4-5 mins her vagina seemed to be very loose and i was easily getting in and out unlike the case(when i tried to penetrate without protection but failed may be as i was hitting somewhere on the side instead of the hole of vagina but my pennis was erect and i believe that the tip(of my pennis) pushed very hard on her vaginal area and also touched the region and dont know wether there was vaginal fluid or anything.)
6.last but not the least also consider the symptoms that i had mentioned.
** all these events happened on different days like one day unprotected oral then a week later protected anal(tried but failed) and the protected vaginal(months before around july or august) and unprotecred vaginal(months before around the same time in july or aug but on a different day but in this case also failed to penetrate)
So please consider the scenarios and the symptoms also that i had mentioned earlier and tell me [please please,if some expert(a specialist or a doc) would suggest then it would be great.Please Please Please].Is there a chance to be infected? do i need to test after jan 14th 2021(12 weeks mark)?
Please provide info after considering some expert opinion taking into consideration all the events and situations alongwith the symptoms i am getting.. please tell me and explain me.
I am desperately and very eagerly waiting for a response. I am going crazy please tell me someone(expert or doc specially)
1.i tried to penetrate the vagina while i was not wearing a condom but i could not as i was hitting somewhere else instead of the proper hole.I tried very hard pushed it very hard to penetrate but could not because i could not hit the hole instead i hit somewhere else around the vagina.
2. I did unprotected oral sex where i was the insertive partner
3. I am not aware of her status and she claims to be negative but she said that she has never tested for it but she believes to be negative but i doubt as she had multiple partners over many years and she belongs to worker class who does household work and currently she stays with a fisherman and that person also mingles with many girls.
4.i also tried to do anal with her but that was protected(i was wearing 2 condoms).in this case also i tried very hard pushed very very hard but could not penetrate at all though i pushed on her anal hole very hard.
5.i also had protected vaginal intercourse for around 4-5 mins her vagina seemed to be very loose and i was easily getting in and out unlike the case(when i tried to penetrate without protection but failed may be as i was hitting somewhere on the side instead of the hole of vagina but my pennis was erect and i believe that the tip(of my pennis) pushed very hard on her vaginal area and also touched the region and dont know wether there was vaginal fluid or anything.)
6.last but not the least also consider the symptoms that i had mentioned.
** all these events happened on different days like one day unprotected oral then a week later protected anal(tried but failed) and the protected vaginal(months before around july or august) and unprotecred vaginal(months before around the same time in july or aug but on a different day but in this case also failed to penetrate)
So please consider the scenarios and the symptoms also that i had mentioned earlier and tell me [please please,if some expert(a specialist or a doc) would suggest then it would be great.Please Please Please].Is there a chance to be infected? do i need to test after jan 14th 2021(12 weeks mark)?
Please provide info after considering some expert opinion taking into consideration all the events and situations alongwith the symptoms i am getting.. please tell me and explain me.
I am desperately and very eagerly waiting for a response. I am going crazy please tell me someone(expert or doc specially)
Also i forgot to mention that i am on treatment of mild asthma from 2019 june and taking (medicine name:motair 10) tabs 1 each daily.And also another symptom i noticed is a fall in my weight of 2-3 kgs actually fluctuating sometimes 2kgs down and sometimes 1kg or 1.5kg up loke these.And yes regarding the woman i am talking about i have come to know that she ***** more than one man i.e she had multiple boyfriends and husbands...please some doctor please give some opinion on my concern please. I am very much worried and feeling like hell. please help. I did very stupid thing i know but please somebody help me and advice and suggest me please...?
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