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Mutual masturbation with vaginal fluid and HIV risk

Hello, 3 weeks ago i had an unprotected mutual masturbation with a thai lady in a massage parlour in UAE, I put my finger in her vagina and with the same hand i started masturbation suddenly. I have a penile head infection for the past 5 years (non itchy, painless, in brown color) and have scratches and tiny papules (looks like chicken skin when erected) as a side effect from an ointment which applied by the instruction of doctor. Can HIV transmit thru that infection/scratches/papules on penile head during masturbation that involves vaginal fluid.? Im experiencing a mild headache for last few days donno because of my overthinking and anxiety. Please help me.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (body,  fluids,  maybe blood, maybe cuts etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
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Is there a chance for other STDs from this act.?
Thank you for reply Sir. Can i ask you one more doubt for my reassurance. If my infection on penile head is from HPV or any other STD, will it make any change in any of your answer because i read that existing infection will put one in risk especially for HIV. Please reply for this question.
As stated, there is no risk for HIV from your exposure you mention here. Nor is there a risk for std's from mutual masturbation. And an existing infection in a non risk event does not make the event a risk. NO risk.
Thank you once again sir. So i can continue to have sex with my wife. Right.?
If your wife feels like it, sure. There is no health reason not to.
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