My risk of getting HIV

[concerned789]

Here's my situation.  I went to Japan and found a Thai massage place.  I was expecting a normal massage when all of a sudden the lady who was giving me the massage starting to rub my balls and penis.  I was shocked and so I stopped her.  She was pointing at her mouth to see if she can give me a ******** for a price.  I said no, so she just gave me a hand-job.  All this is fine but stupid me told her to pull down her panties and she did.  I started rubbing her ***** towards the top and she was really wet for some reason but did not insert my fingers inside her *****.  All the while she is still rubbing my penis and touched my anus.  

Here are my questions which constantly surfaces in my mind:

1. After she and I were done, she gave me tissue to wipe off.  I only used my right hand to rub her ***** and my right hand was dry after i touched the tissue.  I went to the bathroom and saw what looked like soap. (i'm pretty sure it was soap).  I rubbed my hands with it and washed it off, not too thoroughly because for some reason she wanted me quickly out of the bathroom and I proceeded to use that same soap to wash my penis at the sink.  What is my risk of catching HIV if she had HIV?

2. I did wash my hands (not thoroughly) but what if I had got some of her vaginal juice touch or enter my penis while I was washing my penis...would the soap and water have destroyed the HIV virus? what is the risk assessment for that?

3. There was a bathroom where you can wash off and the place looked dark and sketchy.  I used the shower there and used lots of what looked like body wash from pump bottle.  Also what is the risk of me catching the virus in a bathroom used by people who have been serviced the same way I have?

3. I was so worried and couldn't sleep that night and I found what looked like eczema on my collar one or two days later.  I'm not really sure but I also had dry throat one to two weeks after but it didn't feel like a cold or a flu and it just disappeared after couple of days.  Could these be symptoms of HIV?

Please I need some comfort to help me lessen my anxieties.

[Teak]

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[concerned789]

what is your take on my situation?

[LIZZIE LOU]

NO

[concerned789]

Last question.  What if she used lots of lube and had vaginal juice on her finger and then started to rub my penis?  does the lube make any difference?

[LIZZIE LOU]

NO and NO...this is not a risk

[concerned789]

Thanks for the response.  Really puts my mind at ease.  What if she had a little bit of her vaginal juice on her finger and used that finger to rub my penis?  Am I at risk?  Should I get tested?

[Teak]

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[LIZZIE LOU]

nothing that you are describing put you at risk for hiv.

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child