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Need Some Advice, Doctor
Before I go on with my situation, I would like to thank both of you doctors for the fine service you provide us all. Thank you so much.
On Saturday night I was with a girl that I have known for a while. She is a stripper and she used to be a bit of a wild child, has had the same boyfriend for years now, but has cheated on him on several occasions.
The following details are what happened: We made out intensely (I know that HIV cannot be transmitted this way) I fingered her (I also know that HIV cannot be passed along this way), she gave me oral for a few seconds, and then proceeded to ride me vigorously for not more than 30 seconds on two different occasions. While she was ridding me, I felt as that I was sure that I was not inside her and that I never penetrated her. But for some reason, the idea that I was inside her has popped inside my head and it is driving me crazy. I was not drunk. I was not under the influence of any kind of substance and, in fact, we did talk about her status and she told me she is a hypochondriac and gets tested every year and always used protection in the past.
Also, two days afterwards I was masturbating and I ended up noticing that the head of my penis was very dry and had skin peeling. I did some research on it and noticed that it was more than likely due to the fact that it was caused by masturbating with no lotion.
I don't know, doctor. I hate being in this situation! I was soooooooo anal about the whole situation that I made sure that I did not allow myself to give her oral or let it get to a situation where I would be at risk, but my worry well side has gotten the better of me.
I have been under great stress at work and a lot of things are not going well in my life right now, and I just do not need this hanging over my head and making things worse for me.
What are the odds that I penetrated her and not known? And even if I did penetrate her, what are the odds I could have gotten something from the 30 seconds or less I would have been in her?
Should I even stress this? Or should I just move on with my life?
On Saturday night I was with a girl that I have known for a while. She is a stripper and she used to be a bit of a wild child, has had the same boyfriend for years now, but has cheated on him on several occasions.
The following details are what happened: We made out intensely (I know that HIV cannot be transmitted this way) I fingered her (I also know that HIV cannot be passed along this way), she gave me oral for a few seconds, and then proceeded to ride me vigorously for not more than 30 seconds on two different occasions. While she was ridding me, I felt as that I was sure that I was not inside her and that I never penetrated her. But for some reason, the idea that I was inside her has popped inside my head and it is driving me crazy. I was not drunk. I was not under the influence of any kind of substance and, in fact, we did talk about her status and she told me she is a hypochondriac and gets tested every year and always used protection in the past.
Also, two days afterwards I was masturbating and I ended up noticing that the head of my penis was very dry and had skin peeling. I did some research on it and noticed that it was more than likely due to the fact that it was caused by masturbating with no lotion.
I don't know, doctor. I hate being in this situation! I was soooooooo anal about the whole situation that I made sure that I did not allow myself to give her oral or let it get to a situation where I would be at risk, but my worry well side has gotten the better of me.
I have been under great stress at work and a lot of things are not going well in my life right now, and I just do not need this hanging over my head and making things worse for me.
What are the odds that I penetrated her and not known? And even if I did penetrate her, what are the odds I could have gotten something from the 30 seconds or less I would have been in her?
Should I even stress this? Or should I just move on with my life?
Thanks for the reply, worried. I was posting this in the doctors forum and it ended up here for some reason.
I mean...I could feel the stubble from where she had shaved her pubes against my penis (I am sorry for the graphic details) but I cannot make any sense about why my brain is thinking this way.
I mean...I could feel the stubble from where she had shaved her pubes against my penis (I am sorry for the graphic details) but I cannot make any sense about why my brain is thinking this way.
If you dont know if you penetrated her then you probably didnt so I wouldnt worry.
Even if you did briefly penetrate and she was infected the chance is extremely low, like 1 in 2000 (thats what the docs here say). But she says she gets tested every year so she is more than likely negative.
Even if you did briefly penetrate and she was infected the chance is extremely low, like 1 in 2000 (thats what the docs here say). But she says she gets tested every year so she is more than likely negative.
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