Very anxious, need help, possible HIV

[dh1978]

Hi experts, I really need help with this issue. I was vacationing in caribbean several months back. I went to one of those disco club, end up had sex with CSW on two occasions. First time, the girl put a condom on me and gave me a BJ then proceeded to have sex with me with condom on. Second time, a different girl gave a BJ without condom then put a condom on me proceed to have sex, I drank too much, probably after 3 min I went soft, I stop to take a break, I took condom off. I guess I foreplay her a little, then she decided to resume, not realize I took condom off, but I stop her, and told her I did not have a condom on, she thanked me, then proceed to finish me off orally, I came in her mouth. I am fairly sure in no time my penis ever touched her vaginal without condom. I am uncircumcised, at time I did not notice any rip, sore or lesion on my penis.
I did not experience any symptom afterward until 3 weeks later, I saw tiny red bumps on head of my penis, went to a doctor, she said it was possible fungus, so she gave me some anti fungal cream, and problem went away, then it sort came back then went away again. Just recently I found out I have HSV2, not sure when probably last year way before the trip. I did not have a HIV test yet, but my girlfriend test negative about 70 after I came back from the trip. I did not realize the severity of HIV infection until recently. Now I am losing sleep over it, getting constant anxiety attack.
I like to know what is my risk of catching HIV, I guess I need some feeling of assurance before I go in for my test.

Thanks

[RainLover71]

No you don't need to get tested--you never had a risk.

[dh1978]

Thanks for getting back to me. So in this case do I even need to get tested?
Also I had unprotected sex with my GF after I came back from vacation, and 69 days later, she went to get her routine STD test done, HIV came back neg

[RainLover71]

You never had an HIV risk because you didn't penetrate her vagina without a condom like you said,you stopped when you realized it came off and never went any further.