Multiple protected sex and unprotected oral sex

[Tianaja]

Hello,

I'm a male from the Indonesia. Over 5 months (Juli 2019 - November 2019) I've had 20 to 25 encounters with 9 Escorts here within the IND, always protected vaginal sex and unprotected oral sex (receiving).
18 oct 2019 protected vaginal sex, 5 day after that i got wound painfull while masturbation and foreskin my penis swollen for a week.
29 oct 2019 and 1 nov 2019 protected vaginal and unprotected oral sex with csw and last 3 nov 2019 unprotected oral sex while wound my penis from masturbation still pain if im  touching it but not pain for water. First, im scared about herpes for wound on my penis. I got test urin and blood for std's include HIV antigen and antibody (21 nov 2019) result is clear for all.
30 nov 2019 i got the flu and dry cougt so im taking medication from the Apothic (drugstore) include antibiotic for 3 day then flu/cougt gone.
12 dec 2019 i had pain bump under my left ear around corner of the jawbone last 20 dec 2019.  Im searching on internet about the bump, found that is symtomps HIV. From the day I spent days and nights constantly thinking about the virus, google'ing every symptom.
17 dec 2019 the symptom begin,  weakness,burning sensation on my hand for 4 week
18 dec 2019 morning nausea and vomiting once
19 dec 2019 white tonge(persistent until now), diarrhea for 1 mount and now still feces stool.
I dont know im got fever or not cause im still bath on morning/afternoon and working every day, no sore throat ( just dry cougt on 30 nov 2019, i dont know that is sore throat or not)

Feb 2020 i got 3 bump on my spine come and gone/ not come all once,got like pimple on my head

8 March 2020 got bump under my right ear like i had before on my left ear( i dont know that us swollen lymp or not) now star recovery but now im got bump on my left armpit.

1. First, sorry for my very very bad english
2. From my exposure,I've forgot to ask their status but I've always used condoms for vaginal sex without any slippage to my knowledge.Have I placed myself at risk for HIV ?
3. From my exposure unprotected oral sex with wound on my penis and csw had mount ulcer or bleding what are the chances of me contracting HIV?
4 from my illnes what is indicate to ARS ?
5.how about my test result ? (percentage of accuracy)


Many thanks,

[AnxiousNoMore]

No worries, because you can't get hiv from oral activities. Studies of infected people in an oral sex relationship or who have kissed have proven that the negative partner doesn't get hiv. HIV is effectively instantly dead in air plus also dead in saliva, and the person`s mouth always has those 2 hiv killers in it protecting the negative person from getting hiv via oral activities. Blood and cuts would not be relevant since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to look for them to be sure that you are safe.
You can't get hiv when you used a condom (that only needs to cover the head so infection from slippage is a myth since it would fall off if it slipped to the head) for penetrating vaginal or anal which are the only 2 ways you can get it from sex, so you should not be concerned at all about hiv. You didn't even do either of those 2.

This is an hiv prevention forum and you don't have hiv. You list multiple self diagnosed health symptoms (which might just be be in your imagination so relax and see if they go away) however this is not a diagnostic forum so you need to see a doctor if you think there is something wrong. You are wasting your time reading about hiv symptoms because doctors don't diagnose from symptoms and no one here pays attention to poster's claims of symptoms either.

[Tianaja]

But that illness never i had before , i m so scared and still thinks so muach about that virus every single time.
Btw thanks for ur replay

[AnxiousNoMore]

Disease doesn't have a schedule, otherwise you would never get anything that you had never been sick with before, so your self diagnosis doesn't make sense.
Your anxiety is fueled by searching the internet hoping for something to pop up that is like a test. That is kind of a magical hope so it won't happen - you should go back to living your normal life, forget about this, then you can enjoy yourself which makes a lot of sense since you are still young. I would avoid csw for a while though until coronavirus goes away.

[mike_no]

Just wanted to say this, virus don't go away or can be killed. It can only lie in a dormant / latent state.

[Tianaja]

do i need to repeat the test ?

[AnxiousNoMore]

You did not need to take any test since you had no exposure. Please see your doc so he can discuss this matter since you haven't accepted anything that I said. or you can see a therapist to help you with your problem which is not disease- it is only fear of disease that is preventing you from reading the advice because you are too anxious to think carefully.

[Tianaja]

Once again Thanks for your help. Btw, please tell me that how to get answer from a doctor in the forum.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Doctors left here long ago. If you want to see a doctor anywhere you might have difficulty since many don't see patients today because of  Covid fears from their patients. Covid should be YOUR primary health concern because it is known conclusively that you are at high risk every time you see a sex worker now, instead of questioning hiv research which has already been researched for 40 years of hiv history.  https://www.medhelp.org/forums/Coronavirus/show/2203

[mike_no]

Unless there are any symptoms specific to COVID-19 being exhibited, there seems to be nothing to worry about. Seeing sex worker at this juncture is not a wise idea as suggested. However, if there are no symptoms, please dont worry about it.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Perhaps this is useful info too.
People don't show symptoms at first so it is risky trying to figure if the person who is handling your body got it anytime in the week before while handling someone else's body. Someone coughed on me in a pharmacy lineup last week and because of all the washing I have been doing to prevent catching something I am pretty sure they are the cause of my cold a few days later. I read an nytimes article today that says for every person showing symptoms at any time there are 5 - 10 cases undetected.

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Of course the salient point here is that social distancing is a highly-effective and highly recommended form of infection control.   Avoiding close contact with other people is currently the best way to avoiding contracting and spreading COVID19, as advised by the WHO, the CDC, and other national and international health organizations.  

Thus, visiting CSWs, who are in close contact, daily, with a variety of people is an activity best avoided, whether the CSW is symptomatic or still in the asymptomatic incubation period.   While the majority of people you encounter are NOT infected, there is a lot to be said for not taking chance, and for doing one's part to control the potential for spread of disease.

Having said that, let's remember that this is not a Coronavirus forum, and it is preferable to respond to concerns about HIV here - most people are keenly aware of Coronavirus at this point and are welcome to ask those relevant questions in the Coronavirus forum.

[Tianaja]

The last question, are you sure that no need test for unprotected oral sex although penis cut and mouth csw bleding  while giving oral?

[CurfewX]

You had no risk for HIV.  There is no reason to test for a disease that you were never exposed to.

[Sara_MHModerator]

Your question at this point has been answered fully by our members.  We wish you the best.

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