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Oral Sex worried

Hello,

Someone gave me a blowjob in a gay sauna. Then another person came. The person who gave me a blowjob started doing it to him. If I'm not mistaken, the other person ejaculated in his mouth. Then the same person continued to give me blowjob. If the other person has HIV, could it be passed on to me through the person who gave oral sex? Sorry about all details…. I’m really worried, please help me. Thanks.
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But this is not the same thing… I explained the situation in the post.  
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There were numerous responses to you explaining that encounter was zero risk and every one of them applies to this time. Therefore you should be able to understand that if you reread even ONE of them, but I suggest you reread every one of them.  If you're still worried afterwards then discuss it with a mental health therapist in a one on one situation - falling apart with worry every time you have zero risk sex is the wrong way to live.
Ok maybe you are right. Just thinking about the situation, I was worried that someone else's semen was in his mouth before me and he gave me an oral, it might infect me through the urethra. This is actually what I'm worried about...
You keep repeating the same thing but once was enough. There is no logic to your never-ending posts.
You don't understand that when I stated there are  ONLY 3, that I DIDN'T mean 3 plus as many more as you can think of.
"...you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only...."
" As long as you do not have unprotected vaginal or anal sex (without condom) or inject drugs with shared IV drug needles, you will not get HIV. "
Thank you for your response. But no question I asked was as specific as this case. They were ordinary situations. In this case, there is more than one variable. Do you think there is no risk though?
You obviously see the situation as just oral sex. This is a different situation.  I was in the steam room at that time.  So it was pretty hot.  And we know that the virus has to be at a certain temperature. The guy who did bj to me did it to the other person immediately, instantly, and continued to do it to me as soon as that person ejaculated. In other words, another person's sperm came into contact with my penis through the mouth, which is a mucus area. In other words, it is a region that facilitates the transmission of the virus. That's why I am afraid.  Do you still think this is not a risk?
It is not a different situation and you have been answered.  UNLESS you have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV drug needles to inject drugs, you did NOT Have a risk.  Use that as your starting point for every HIV concern you have. There is nothing to add here. No risk.
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It must be awful to go through this fear so many times.
Seek therapy instead of worrying about the same thing as before. https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Cheek-Biting--Unprotected-Oral-Sex/show/3063651
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But this is not the same thing… I explained the situation in the post.  
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