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Hiv risk? Mutual oral

I had an encounter with a transgender woman about 8 weeks. We both just did oral on each other. Penis in both of our mouths. I didn’t notice any precum and they didn’t ejaculate.

A few days ago I noticed a few randomly spaced out bumps on my arms. Resembling maybe an infected hair follicle nothing significant just a small light red bump that’s not really even raised. Today I am noticing more of them but no real patterns or anything. Just randomly spaced. I have also recently picked up running about 2 miles and I sweat hardcore so I assume it could just be heat rash. But nonetheless I have anxiety it could be an Acute HIV rash since my encounter was about 7 weeks ago.

Do you believe that I could’ve gotten HIV from my encounter and this is an HIV rash?
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  ( penis, maybe liquids, etc.). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe.
The first step to peace is to stop googling cold turkey and the second is to stop examining your body for hiv cold turkey since there is nothing to find.
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Yeah. I figured I’d receive this response. Anxiety just hit me hardcore and then I broke out in a heat rash and the anxiety got worse.

To date has there still no been scientific documented cases of HIV transmission from oral?
Reread about 40. You have greater chance of being hit by a meteorite, but you don't worry about that possibility so your priorities are misplaced.
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