can anyone give me some advise please.
your test will be negative if you haven't had any truly unsafe sex. you should see a doc as something else likely is going on ie thyroid inbalance, depression, anxiety etc.
There was no risk to protected anal sex, an unprotected oral sex is an extremely low risk. Just be sure to ask HIV status of anyone you don't really know good luck
thank you this calmed me down while i wait for my results
Oral sex carries a very low risk, the risk for the insertive partner is lower than the receptive partner, unfortunally gay man have a high hiv prevalence but the risk remains small, the CDC says that the hiv per act risk of giving oral sex is 1/10000 since you did it 3 times your risk would be 3/10000, your symptoms are probably anxiety driven are to late , ARS symptoms only happen 50% of the time in infected people, and they happen betwenn 2 -6 weeks not 5 months later, if you remain worried get a single rapid test it only takes 20 min and would give you a life of peace of mind.
Good luck