Recently i was with a CSW ,
I didnt prefer oral sex .
But due to some nervousness i did sex with protection but cant came and ask her to perform oral .
She did for a while may be a minute or two thereafter i stopped her and later i came and the act is over.
But after that my anxiety killing me .
I have gone through many articles , videos of doctors some said yes transmission can be there.
Some said it is safe .
Is it rally safe ??
The CSW was mom of 9 month baby i also asked her about any std she have in answer she rwplied NO.
Testing needed ???
Why conflict is there on net !!!
Please help
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure.
You can read anything on the net and some sites use conservative guidelines stating it is possible even though it has never happened in 40 years of hiv history. How useless is that info? We rely on the opinion of expert doctors and don't pay attention to what you can find on other sites or we will be arguing all day. The first step to peace for you is to stop googling cold turkey.