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Oral sex

Hello!
I engaged in oral sex (I was the giver) about a month ago. I have cavities, and my gums tend to bleed easily. After 28 days, I took a combo test, and the result came back negative. However, I am still very worried about the possibility of testing error leading to inaccurate results.
Should I undergo another test?
Thank you!
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Simply put, the risks for oral sex include having unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Oral se is not a risk for HIV.
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Thank you! I worry about this issue because doctors in our country always say, "Oral sex carries risks, and it's necessary to use condoms!"
I understand now: Oral sex is g safe.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (maybe blood, maybe cuts, saliva, mouth touching penis or vagina,  etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
It is time to move on from this non-event, which naturally seemed like a risk to you, but isn't a risk.
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