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Risk assessment
Dear experts,
here is the situation that I kindly ask you to assess.
Some months ago I had sex with a girl of unknown status.
During an hour of sex we had two or three time protected vaginal sex where I used each time a different condom.
At the end I fingered her quite vigourosly.
After that she started sucking me and at that time I licked the hand that I used to finger her and used it to masturbate the head of my penis.
Both licking the same hand that I used to finger her (at that time I had some cold/canker sores on my gums due to a dental surgery that took place a couple of weeks before) putting her fluids in contact with my tongue and using the same hand to touch the head of my penis worried me when I rethink about it.
Btw I know that symptoms are not useful to assess the situation but since that time I had no symptoms with the only exception of some canker sores in my mouth spread across the time.l (not in the first weeks).
Could you please assess this situation?
Many thanks.
here is the situation that I kindly ask you to assess.
Some months ago I had sex with a girl of unknown status.
During an hour of sex we had two or three time protected vaginal sex where I used each time a different condom.
At the end I fingered her quite vigourosly.
After that she started sucking me and at that time I licked the hand that I used to finger her and used it to masturbate the head of my penis.
Both licking the same hand that I used to finger her (at that time I had some cold/canker sores on my gums due to a dental surgery that took place a couple of weeks before) putting her fluids in contact with my tongue and using the same hand to touch the head of my penis worried me when I rethink about it.
Btw I know that symptoms are not useful to assess the situation but since that time I had no symptoms with the only exception of some canker sores in my mouth spread across the time.l (not in the first weeks).
Could you please assess this situation?
Many thanks.
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As an adult, the only risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
You had ZERO RISK for HIV. Fluid, once outside of the body, is no longer infectious. Transmission occurs INSIDE the body - when a penis is unprotected inside a vagina or anus - not OUTSIDE. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
You do not need a test since you didn't have a risk.
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
You had ZERO RISK for HIV. Fluid, once outside of the body, is no longer infectious. Transmission occurs INSIDE the body - when a penis is unprotected inside a vagina or anus - not OUTSIDE. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
You do not need a test since you didn't have a risk.
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Thanks for your previous feedback. What about the condoms performance? For what I remember they were intact when I removed them and I din't use any kind of lube but I readt some reports on the web that say that the effectiveness of condoms isn't total or 100% and these scared me a bit. Should I totally trust and rely on latex condoms if they do not break during sex?
Many thanks once again.
Many thanks once again.
If a condom fails it is a large rip down the seam and it hangs in tatters so both of you notice and start asking questions. that didn't happen so you are safe and need to move on to your happy life.
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