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Penis and anal rubbing with cum. No penetration.
Hi, yesterday I was having a sexual activity with this guy. He said that he was tested negative a month ago, but it concerns me as he told me that he was having several unprotected sex before.
We both had oral sex, and he rubbed his dick and ejaculated on my anus. There was no penetration involved.
Should I be concerned to be contracted by HIV this way? :(
Thinking to get PEP but it is so expensive in my country.
Thank you.
We both had oral sex, and he rubbed his dick and ejaculated on my anus. There was no penetration involved.
Should I be concerned to be contracted by HIV this way? :(
Thinking to get PEP but it is so expensive in my country.
Thank you.
The risks since you posted awhile ago haven't changed. They are only if someone has penetration that is unprotected either vaginally or anally. Or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Having oral is not a risk as saliva and air inactivate the virus. You don't need PEP and a doctor that would give that to you for oral sex is acting irresponsibly. It's not indicated for that. So try to move on.
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Thank you. This helps putting my mind at ease.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( hand, maybe blood, penis, maybe cuts, mouth, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You're lucky that PEP is expensive, because it would have been a waste of your money.
See a mental health therapist because you have had many hiv posts but don't believe the advice - there is nothing we can do to solve your mental problems. https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Anxiety/Am-I-Going-Mad-HIV-Anxiety-Strikes-Back-Please-Read/show/2041628 ;
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Are-you-absolutely-sure-it-can-only-be-contracted-in-those-ways/show/2027362
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/TO-TEAK-AND-ANYBODY-WHO-HELPED-ME-CALM-DOWN/show/2023993
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You're lucky that PEP is expensive, because it would have been a waste of your money.
See a mental health therapist because you have had many hiv posts but don't believe the advice - there is nothing we can do to solve your mental problems. https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Anxiety/Am-I-Going-Mad-HIV-Anxiety-Strikes-Back-Please-Read/show/2041628 ;
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Are-you-absolutely-sure-it-can-only-be-contracted-in-those-ways/show/2027362
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/TO-TEAK-AND-ANYBODY-WHO-HELPED-ME-CALM-DOWN/show/2023993
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Thank you. This helps putting my mind at ease.
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