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Mutual masturbation worried plz help

Hi all for helping worried like us ...

My situation is like this .i and a girl mutual masturbated each other I fingered her and she rubbed my penis ...now I am concerned that when I was fingering her she grabbed my hand to stop me from fingering her more my hand was wet with her vaginal fluid now I am confused ...the hand she tried to stop me she rubbed my penis with that same hand ...but before she actually held my penis she tried to rub my penis when I was having my jeans on and after that I took off my jeans and she grabbed my penis . So maybe I am being over reacting but what if she was having her vaginal fluids on her hand on which she rubbed my penis and what if that vaginal fluid touched and got into my urethra ...oh and I didn't ejaculated ...only Precum that's it .... So am I at risk of hiv ? Do I need to test ? Can I have sexual relations with my gf now? Plz answer as soon as possible plz .......oh and that girl's hiv status is unknown to me ... She only told me she had two bfs before ....
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Hi! We are closing this thread since the question has been answered adequately and any further questions/answers would only be repetitive.
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You had NO RISK and you do not need to test.  Transmission of HIV requires penetration, and not with your finger!  Transmission only happens when a penis is inside a vagina or anus, unprotected (no condom).  

HIV becomes inactive and unable to infect once it is exposed to air, so fluid transferred from her hand to your penis would never be a risk.  NO ONE has contracted HIV from any of the activities that you describe.  Never.
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Please guys tell me ..can I just forget it and move on?   Or do you guys think I must do test?
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Please tell me do I have to test or not? Can I forget it and move on?
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I am not sure if infectious fluid were there on that girl hand when she was rubbing my penis ...and opening I am not sure .. And contact  don't know ...Man U are confusing me
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If you can tell me one answer bro that to test or not ? Plz If I sound rude to you I am really sorry I am just tensed bro I hope u can understand ...plz tell me a straight forward answer plz ...if u think I don't need test then I will just forget and move on
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My friend,be cool,i have read your full details, penetration sex needed for hiv transmission,even virus will die within few minutes once it exposed to air,so you are absolutely safe,just forget the incident and move on,if you are really worried much go for 4th gen test for piece of mind,i am sure your result will be negative.
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Teak and Lizzie please you also tell me if I need to test or not? Please reply soon
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But tests aren't available easy and I am scared of it too ...just tell me if I need test or not ? If I don't need test then tell me I will accept and move on
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Can you please read my whole situation and answer ....I want to relax plz ... Sorry if I am being rude I am just too much stressed and tensed
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Hi,i understand your situation,there is no chance for hiv infection,if you are really worried just do a 4th generation test at 28 days for piece of mind,but i am sure you will receive negative result.
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1508374 tn?1380808510
Hello,
Mutual masturbation is not considered as a risk of HIV transmission.
HIV can be transmitted via unprotected vaginal or/and anal penetration, sharing IV works in drugs and from mother to child
Take care
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