About 5 weeks ago I went to a gay bath. I did not have any anal or oral sex, however I played with other guys masturbating each other. I pretty sure that precum was involved and maybe used as lube. I didn’t have any wounds at that moment.
10 days after that I noticed my salivary gland got swollen on one side. It got so bad that my half of the face, neck, and ear got all swollen, and some discharge behind my ear where the earlobe and face connects. I went to ER and they did a CT scan and apparently it is inflammation of salivary gland (paratoid gland). I have been on the antibiotics for the last 4 week, it got better but still swollen and drainage (like a open wound that still drains).
I read on different website that swollen salivary gland can be a early manifestation of HIV, what do you think?
Would it be a lymphoepithelial cyst that usually just occurs in hiv positive people? Would this happen just 10 days after exposure to hiv even if no sex involved (probably cum used as lube)?