HIV Risk: help please!

[KLTan]

Hi there,

I recently went to see a lady body sex worker in Thailand. I was a bit drunk and hadn't planned on doing anything other than a hand job. Anyway, I ended up giving her oral sex but I insisted that she put a condom on. After this she became very insistent about giving me anal sex. Anyway, I rolled over on my side and she stuck her finger up my anus a couple of times and then she tried to enter inside me but I stopped her when she had entered me about a third. She then flipped me on my back and starting rubbing lube on my anus with her finger. She then tried to enter me again but again, I stopped her when she was about a third in. She was wearing a condom at all times.

After this, she took the condom off and we then went to the bathroom where she jerked herself off. I did the same whilst standing directly behind her. I never touched her when she ejaculated and neither did she touch me.

I would highlight, that the oral sex I gave was protected and the anal penetrations were protected however, her finger was definitly not covered in any way when she stuck it inside me and when she was rubbing the lube on my anus. I can't recall any cuts on her hands but this is not to say that there wasn't any.

I am trying to tell myself that I have not had an exposure (indeed, this is even presuming she had HIV) but I am thinking that I am risk of contracting HIV, especially when I think about her sticking her finger inside me. I'll be honest, I am shaking when I am writing this. I'd really appreciate some expert advice please.

Thanks and keep up the great work!

[KLTan]

I hear you. My apologies.

[Worriedguysks1]

Hello,  kindly post in the std's forum.

[KLTan]

Hi, is anybody there who can reply please? I'd really appreciate some input please.

[KLTan]

Hi there,

Thanks for the assessment! Really appreciate it.

There has been a development since I originally posted and I am now freaking out big time. I have recently developed a strong burning sensation when I urinate.

This thing is that I saw she was wearing a condom on both occasions when she tried to penetrate me. The condom was covering her entire penis / it was on correctly. I saw her remove the condom when she rolled away from me after the second attempted penetration and it seemed to be entirely intact (again fully covering her penis); indeed, it had barely been used in any way shape or form.

I went for a STD test yesterday and I am currently waiting for the results but all in all, the sensation and the feeling of uncomfortableness are very real and this is not something that is imagined or psychosomatic.

The fact is that this CSW is high risk individual whom I was involved in a high risk activity with. If you chuck some potential gonorrhoea or chlamydia into the mix then it's not good at all as far as potential HIV transmission is concerned (again, even assuming she has HIV although if she has another STD then she may well have something else). I've now started to question whether she took the condom off on the second attempted penetration but this simply cannot be, given that I remember seeing her roll away from me and pulling the thing off her! Also, why would she even bother to wear it in the first place?

The thing is, her hands were all over my penis and I certainly did not have a condom on. Her hand / fingers were also all over / in my anus. I keep trying to reassure myself that I haven't had an exposure to HIV as the attempted anal penetrations were covered but I then ask the question as to how I have would have contracted an STD such as gonorrhoea or chlamydia.

I should say I spoke to someone directly on a helpline via Skype given my anxiety about this. I was informed that I am confusing HIV with a urinal tract infection that can potentially be picked up during a close sexual encounter, which could potentially not encompass any unprotected sex. My exposure was zero.

Would appreciate some comments or feedback about this as I really am at my wits end now and the shakes are most definitely back! I tried to protect myself from any STDs but I am now convinced that I have contracted a very serious disease alongside the other STD I have acquired. :(  I am totaly distraught right now. :( :(

[maash2281]

Yes both same , YOu have NO RISK

[KLTan]

Would really appreciate it if someone could reply further please!

[KLTan]

I would mention that she was fingering my anus. I am guessing that the same applies for anal fingering as vaginal fingering but best to be clear.

[KLTan]

I am correct in thinking that there is no exposure then, taking into account all the other things that I mentioned?

[KLTan]

OK! No risk from the fingering. Thanks for the link!

[maash2281]

Fingering is NO RISK at all.

Read this

http://www.medhelp.org/user_journals/show/154495/HIV-through-fingering-a-Vagina

[KLTan]

Sorry, should have been lady boy!