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Please need help! I am super worried
Hi,
I just arrived in the US 4 months back and I am currently doing my masters here. I am still a virgin and partly one reason I have held back from having sex is my fear of HIV.
I was in New Orleans last month where I visited a lot of strip clubs on Bourbon street and got lap dances from 5 strippers. There was no anal, vaginal and oral sex of any kind with any girl. However with 2 strippers i got really close I kissed their entire body, kissed them on the lips too(no deep kissing, just lip kissing) and may have sucked their nipples too but I am not sure if I did(mostly I did not and may have just kissed nipple) because I was always aware that I need to protect myself from any STD and avoid sharing any body fluid. Also I licked one stripper's shoulders once. I started getting fears of STD after that and it has been 4 weeks since then and I have not had any symptoms of any kind.
On November 5 I went to see a movie with a girl I had met on Tindr. During the movie I pressed her breasts vigorously,put my hands in her pants and spanked her *** and also touched the area around the vagina( did not touch the vagina and only the area around) and kissed her around the neck. I also deep kissed her twice in which my tounge was in contact with hers. After kissing I produced a lot of saliva in my mouth and spit it on my handkerchief. She also masturbated me twice and I dont remember seeing any cut or sore with blood on her hands and also dont recall her putting her hands in her pant and may be having some vaginal fluid before touching my penis, so this did not happen either. What is worrying me is the deep kiss, I dont remember seeing any blood or sore in her mouth and did not taste any, but I had a small ulcer beneath my tounge. Can HIV pass through deep kissing if she had a very small cut or blood in her mouth to me? As soon as I would kiss I would produce a lot of saliva and spit it out on my handkerchief.
Am I at risk of getting HIV from my encounter in the theatre or with any of the strippers in New Orleans. I always ensure I am protected. I talked about having protected sex with this girl I met on Tinder only after we both test together and get negative results and she said Yes but hasn't repsonded since last week and that is what is fueling my fears that she may be positive. Should I test or not? Will deep kissing with an HIV positive female lead to transmission?
And also do condoms really protect against HIV? If she tests negative and I would be too. Would u recommend getting into a sexual relationship with someone u met on Tindr? I dont have any idea about her sexual past and she is a super horny single mother and as she is willing to meet people like me on Tinder, I can be sure she must be meeting other people too and have sex with them. This was my first such experience. If I use Dentals Dams, Condoms and Latex gloves?Will I be always protected?
I just arrived in the US 4 months back and I am currently doing my masters here. I am still a virgin and partly one reason I have held back from having sex is my fear of HIV.
I was in New Orleans last month where I visited a lot of strip clubs on Bourbon street and got lap dances from 5 strippers. There was no anal, vaginal and oral sex of any kind with any girl. However with 2 strippers i got really close I kissed their entire body, kissed them on the lips too(no deep kissing, just lip kissing) and may have sucked their nipples too but I am not sure if I did(mostly I did not and may have just kissed nipple) because I was always aware that I need to protect myself from any STD and avoid sharing any body fluid. Also I licked one stripper's shoulders once. I started getting fears of STD after that and it has been 4 weeks since then and I have not had any symptoms of any kind.
On November 5 I went to see a movie with a girl I had met on Tindr. During the movie I pressed her breasts vigorously,put my hands in her pants and spanked her *** and also touched the area around the vagina( did not touch the vagina and only the area around) and kissed her around the neck. I also deep kissed her twice in which my tounge was in contact with hers. After kissing I produced a lot of saliva in my mouth and spit it on my handkerchief. She also masturbated me twice and I dont remember seeing any cut or sore with blood on her hands and also dont recall her putting her hands in her pant and may be having some vaginal fluid before touching my penis, so this did not happen either. What is worrying me is the deep kiss, I dont remember seeing any blood or sore in her mouth and did not taste any, but I had a small ulcer beneath my tounge. Can HIV pass through deep kissing if she had a very small cut or blood in her mouth to me? As soon as I would kiss I would produce a lot of saliva and spit it out on my handkerchief.
Am I at risk of getting HIV from my encounter in the theatre or with any of the strippers in New Orleans. I always ensure I am protected. I talked about having protected sex with this girl I met on Tinder only after we both test together and get negative results and she said Yes but hasn't repsonded since last week and that is what is fueling my fears that she may be positive. Should I test or not? Will deep kissing with an HIV positive female lead to transmission?
And also do condoms really protect against HIV? If she tests negative and I would be too. Would u recommend getting into a sexual relationship with someone u met on Tindr? I dont have any idea about her sexual past and she is a super horny single mother and as she is willing to meet people like me on Tinder, I can be sure she must be meeting other people too and have sex with them. This was my first such experience. If I use Dentals Dams, Condoms and Latex gloves?Will I be always protected?
You are not at risk of HIV as, as an adult, it is only transmitted from:
* Unprotected anal/vaginal sex (this includes condom breakage/slippage)
* Sharing IV-needles
You were not involved in those activities.
* Unprotected anal/vaginal sex (this includes condom breakage/slippage)
* Sharing IV-needles
You were not involved in those activities.
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