Possible HIV exposure

[SueSeb6]

Had protected vaginal sex with a guy who took the condom off at one point but said he didnt cum, I think he was inside me with no condom for like 2 mins. I also gave him oral with no condom and he didn't cum in my mouth but I tasted a little bit of cum at some point. That was 6 weeks ago and now I have a sore throat, tonsils look a it swollen to me, dry cough, am weak, my mouth is dry, my gums are dark and my skin feels warm but I don't think I have a fever. I had chills last week, and thought it was due to herpes was prescribed valtrex and immediately felt better but found out I dont have herpes. I also have skin changes and muscle aches. I had a test done about 27 days after exposure but that was negative. However my symptoms weren't as bad then. I asked the guy and he says he doesnt have anything but didn't say hes been tested. I am scared should I take another test and would it be accurate?


This discussion is related to possible risk due to condom slip off.

[cocacola8923]

Thats so rude of him to remove the condom and penetrate without protection.

[RubyWitch]

If you had a 4th generation DUO test at 27 days post this exposure and it was negative, that is a very good indication of your status. Have a test at 12 weeks, which will be 100% conclusive.
I would also recommend you have a full STD panel done for other sexually transmitted diseases.
Symptoms are NEVER used to diagnose HIV. EVER.
And please, never accept the word that someone is clean.......ALWAYS insist on a condom.
I wish you the very best.
RubyWitch

[SueSeb6]

Thank you! I got my tests back and they were negative, am being tested for herpes again to see if it will be positive this time around