Hi
I got close to a woman. The woman wanted to have intercourse, but I did not want to because there was no condom. I didn't take off my underwear, but she had moved her hand to inside my underwear bu i refused her .
9 days after this incident sore throat, cold sores and fever started.
Is it possible for symptoms to appear after 9 days?
1) Having unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Sharing IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.
As you can see, the activities that you did are NOT on this list. It is not possible for YOU to get HIV symptoms at any time, since you had zero risk for HIV.
There is no information that you can add that would make your events a risk for HIV.