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Protected anal sex with CSW

Hello, I am a 29-year-old man who is married. I had some problems in my marriage, so I arranged a date with a sex worker. She charges luxury prices and informed me that she does not engage in unprotected sex.

During our encounter, after engaging in anal sex and ejaculating, I noticed that the condom had slipped off while withdrawing, and I became very scared. When I removed myself, the condom was no longer there. She went to the bathroom holding herself (at that moment, I couldn't see if she was holding the condom or not). Five minutes later, I immediately checked the condom and saw that it was full inside, which eased my worries a bit. However, after leaving her, my concerns persisted, so I messaged her. She told me that the condom was full and half of it remained inside while the other half came out. I hope she is telling the truth. What are the chances of contracting HIV from this encounter? Thank you very much, and I apologize for my poor English.
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3191940 tn?1447268717
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There's no reason for her to lie to you about the situation. She insists on using condoms to protect herself from her clients - NOT to protect her clients from her. She would be pretty nervous if the condom had come off during intercourse. The fact that it will full confirms that the condom came off as you were withdrawing your penis.

As long as the head of your penis was covered during intercourse, you were not at risk for HIV at all. If you're not sure, you can always take a 4th generation test at least 28 days after your encounter for peace of mind.  I don't think you had ANY risk at all, but even if you did, it was VERY LOW RISK - any one-time encounter is very low risk.
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