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Hi, I just had sex with an escort. Really worried now and anxiety is hitting me hard.
She gave me oral and vaginal sex with condom. I did finger her and we did kiss for a bit, hardly any tongue but did touch tip of her tongue with mine, also licked her vagina for about 2 seconds. Am I at any risk? Really appreciate it guys.
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You had no HIV risk so an HIV test would be a waste of time. However you have big risk for strep throat or flu since she kisses everyone in town so hopefully she doesn't give you that.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
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I’m so sorry, I’m not worried about hiv, what about the other stds like gonnorhea chlamidya. Am I in the wrong forum.
There is an std forum for that.
But you had no risk since you used a condom.
Thanks man appreciate it.
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