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I wasn't worried but now I am.. I've tested for times all neg 3 rna test and one antibody test out to about 5 or 6 months ..but I had sex 3 weeks ago with the same man and the condom broke as soon as I felt it I quickly got up before he but the condom on he was rubbing his penis on my vagina do I need to test over this?
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Thank you kindly for the replies and advice!
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None of it is related to HIV
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On and off dirrieah for awhile , gas , upset stomach and bloating and when I eat I poop afterwards.. None of it sounds like hiv? Dirrieah for a long period is s sign of hiv isn't it?
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No symptom you have had is related to HIV
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Thank you! Yes I don't know about the condom thing but I will try to stay calm just these symptoms that I've been having for months even before the last time I had sex is scaring me scared all my test weren't good
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Any condom made even thin has the same strength and even rough the condom should hold up. But anyway just stay calm.
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Thank you also!
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Thank you! He says it broke the first time but I don't know the last time I felt it though I think it has to do with what condom he uses which is the thin ones and sometimes the intercourse is kinda rough.. I've asked him before he says he's clean and we always fight because I accuse him of it.. I don't think we will have intercourse again because of this issue
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Those issues have nothing to do with HIV. I think if you have sex with this guy again 1. he needs to learn how to put on a condom correctly, it should not break 2 times out of 3 or 4 times and 2. You should make him test for HIV to help ease your mind.

I see no reason to worry a straight man in America chance of having HIV is very low.
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Not a possibility
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The first time I had sex with him it was unprotected the sec time the condom broke.. Then the other two times I was afraid.. Now this time the condom broke again so I'm going crazy all over again.. And I've been having dirrieah and upset stomach plus gas before my last sexual encounters I'm scared all my test didn't pick hiv up
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Well you said you tested a lot 5-6 months ago...why testing so much?
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What do you mean? I did everything right the condom just broke unfortunately
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Might want to think about not having sex until you can deal with the anxiety.
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Thank you! I'm trying to keep a clear mind that I'm okay but my anxitey is taking over
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I wouldn't be concerned about this scenario. If you're worried, take a DUO test at 28 days
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Four*
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