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Received Oral Sex - SO STUPID worried...
I have a kid on the way. I have a fiance. I got drunk and got head and had sex with a man... that is bad enough and I feel like I could die for it. I cannot sleep at all, I lie awake cringing at the thought of being infected with HIV.
I met this man through a website, that story in itself is long. He performed oral sex on me without a condom, and I performed insertive anal sex on him for about 5-10 minutes with a condom. After that, he masturbated me until ejacultion with a small amount of sucking. Sorry to be so vulgar, but I am very worried and afraid.
I do not want to infect my fiance. It was a dumb thing and I could have ruined my life. I don't want that to happen. I am wondering what my risk of being infected could have been. The condom did not break or anything, and I read that oral sex has a low risk rate but... I am still very afraid. I am even afraid to get a test, because of the results, but I know I'll have to...
The reason I was mostly worried, was after sex, I looked at his leg and I saw lesions. I immediately began to inspect his body. They looked as though they were healed, but they looked like deep wounds on his leg. I have read that comes with being infected with HIV.... so I took a look around his room, and I saw a prescription bottle for Testosterone. I felt my heart drop. I know that Steroids are given to treat HIV, and I also saw some swap type looking things, like they were for giving some kind of test. I asked him what they were for and he said working out. I am just very worried, and I pray to God to help me get past this... I want to be healthy.
Please if anyone can, help me out... I need some kind of comfort, something.
Signed,
Now an Insomniac
I met this man through a website, that story in itself is long. He performed oral sex on me without a condom, and I performed insertive anal sex on him for about 5-10 minutes with a condom. After that, he masturbated me until ejacultion with a small amount of sucking. Sorry to be so vulgar, but I am very worried and afraid.
I do not want to infect my fiance. It was a dumb thing and I could have ruined my life. I don't want that to happen. I am wondering what my risk of being infected could have been. The condom did not break or anything, and I read that oral sex has a low risk rate but... I am still very afraid. I am even afraid to get a test, because of the results, but I know I'll have to...
The reason I was mostly worried, was after sex, I looked at his leg and I saw lesions. I immediately began to inspect his body. They looked as though they were healed, but they looked like deep wounds on his leg. I have read that comes with being infected with HIV.... so I took a look around his room, and I saw a prescription bottle for Testosterone. I felt my heart drop. I know that Steroids are given to treat HIV, and I also saw some swap type looking things, like they were for giving some kind of test. I asked him what they were for and he said working out. I am just very worried, and I pray to God to help me get past this... I want to be healthy.
Please if anyone can, help me out... I need some kind of comfort, something.
Signed,
Now an Insomniac
Sure you could have gotten tricked...about what I don't know but you did not have a risk.
Are you two sure? I think this guy was on meth or something... I saw a pipe in there that did not look like a normal pipe for Marijuana... he was just a very good liar I think. A lot of fanciful stories... I am worried I just got tricked by a pathological liar and sex addict.
HIV is not transmitted through oral sex.
please read the forum. it is FULL of posts regarding oral sex.
please read the forum. it is FULL of posts regarding oral sex.
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