Recent oral sex with male: reception/giving

[AnxietyHead]

Good evening doctors and thank you much in advance for taking the time to read this post.

I would like to preface with the fact that I've read many posts similar to my current situation on here, but my anxiety has driven me to submit a direct post. Just tonight about 2 hours ago, bi-curiosity got the best of me, for the first time, which ended up being a truly awful and unenjoyable experience. In order to fully move on from this mistake, I am hoping to gauge your thoughts on the potential consequences of my actions. NOTE: Condom was not used during any of the below activity.

I performed oral sex on his penis for a total of maybe 2-4 minutes collectively, but it was never consistent. During this activity I made contact with his penis, scrotum, and surrounding areas with both hands and did make slight, brief contact with his anus, using maybe two of my fingers. My fingers never came close to penetrating his anus, more likened to just getting in between the fold of his cheeks and contacting the surrounding area of his anus. He meanwhile performed fellatio on me for probably about the same duration of time, and I would say he did all the same as I listed above, less initiating contact with my anus.

My biggest fear is the fact that (of course) I have a small sore in the back of my mouth on my inner cheek, from biting it accidentally while chewing, which looks to be healed over, no bleeding whatsoever, but I'm thinking it could still be considered an "open sore" insofar as far as STDs are concerned. I'm guessing from taste and inevitability, that there was some pre-ejaculate released from his penis while I performed fellatio and I'm guessing I released some as well; however, neither of us ejaculated as I eventually put things to an early end. It was a CL meet and he stated that he was disease free, but never alluded to having been tested for anything, so naturally my paranoia is getting the best of me. I cannot believe I was so foolish. I immediately showered thoroughly and washed my mouth out with soap (like that would actually do anything) for some false comfort of mind. He looked very clean and had no outward indications of disease, which I realize could mean practically zilch, but I just wanted to point that out.

HIV is my overwhelming concern in this situation, but I am fully aware I may have put myself at risk for a plethora of other STDs and plan to get tested.

I guess my questions would be:
1.) What is your take on this scenario in terms of potential HIV exposure?
2.) How long should I wait to get a standard STD test done for a number of different diseases, less HIV test, which I plan to get 31 days from today's date for it to be most conclusive?
3.) Im thinking it to be unsafe/irresponsible to resume sexual activity with my normal female partner (whom I know is disease free) at this time prior to testing results?

Thanks again for all of your time and any feedback.  Your work cannot be appreciated enough, and we are truly blessed to have the capability to reach out to such fine doctors.

[BeStrong_]

You can just post to the experts forum.

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/HIV---Prevention/show/117

Take care

[AnxietyHead]

My apologies, thanks for pointing that out.

Is there a way I can transfer this over to the doctors forum?

[BeStrong_]

For starters this is not the doctor' forum.
As far as hiv is concerned focus on this :

Hiv can only be transmitted through :
-unprotected vaginal or/and anal penetration
-from mother to child
-by sharing drug works

As far as STDs are concerned I would suggest you to post to the relevant forum.

Take care