I am I currently work in Germany, and had sexual relations with a transsexual prostitute from the internet. I licked her anus for a while and then used a condom to have anal intercourse. I could get to hard since I was nervous. After about 5 min I gave up and went back to licking her anus. She sat on my face grinding. I’m worried that I might have gotten HIV from the rough grinding. I start to think that maybe feces went into my mouth or from grind maybe my gums open up allowing it to Uber my blood or maybe I chaffed her with my teeth. I never really do this an I’m married. About 5-6 days later I had a really bad sore throat. And shortly about a month after I have wet stool. The diarrhea lasted for for about 2 months and the doctor put me on medication. I also have had a numbing pain in my throat but it’s not sore for about a month. At 7,8,10 weeks I had a oraquick home test that all came back negative and 2 home blood test done at 9, and at 81 days that came back negative. I’ve had sex with my wife a few times since my encounter and she has not even showed one symptom in the last 4 1/2 months. Do you think I have HIV. I worry about getting tested at the clinic because I would lose my job.