Hi people. Thanks in advance for your understanding and help!
I'm a 37 year old hetero male. Had drinks on june 18 and had sex with a 34 year old girl met using an app, but this was the third time we met, we have friends in common and she has a very good social and economic background.
We had vigorous vaginal only protected sex, with me on top and then she got on top for about 20 minutes with a condom, which I don't remember I put in any wrong way, but I was very tipsy from the alcohol, so... maybe I left some air on the tip. It was and old condom also, like 2 years in my bathroom cabinet.
Anyway, I did not cum and she got tired and withdraw from me. The condom was in place, seemed ok and was completely on me. So I left it on my still erect penis for about 10-15 minutes and proceed to remove afterwards it on the bathroom sitting on the toilet, with the erection already reduced to about 50%.
Everything was ok while removing the condom, just normal fluids on the outside and a couple of red spots on the outside latex, but just at the end when the last part with the ring came off, a HUGE load (not a drop, not a little amount, I'm talking like 2 whole "tablespoons" load, for lack of a quantity measure) of viscous, white (not red) gooey vaginal fluids came out from that last part of the condom and dripped right into the head of my penis (which was facing downwards into the WC).
So, I'm very scared that the condom was not well used and this gooey vaginal fluids (which were not cum, I did not climax) managed to go inside the condom and made dangerous contact inside the condom with my urethra while I thrusted the girl, or that when they came out when removing the condom also made dangerous contact with my urethra. After this happened, being shocked, I immediately urinated (still sitting) for about 10 seconds and proceeded to put my undies on and didn't use a tissue or anything to dry anything, because I was scared of manipulating whatever anymore.
This is the first time in my life something like this happens to me while removing protection, more strangely after 15 minutes when, from experience, secretions tend to dry off.
Please help me figure out while this encounter was "protected" if am I at risk of getting HIV or other STDs from it?
Thanks!!