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Risk level>?????

Hello, I'm dying of fear here. Please help.

Two months ago, I had a sexual encounter (we had sex four times) in Turkey.  My partner had been with many women, he even admitted to being with a few prostitutes.  We had protected sex all four times.  

My question is this: On one of the times, he went "soft" and didn't finish, so he pulled out "soft." The condom was left inside me, but I believe it had been on during the duration of the sex act. When he pulled out "soft," there may have been a second where his skin touched the skin of my vagina.  I know HIV exists in pre-cum, so am worried that some of his pre-cum may have been left in the opening of my vagina and infected me.

I was tested at almost seven weeks and was negative for HIV. I will be tested again at 3 months.  

(As a side note, he just got into pilot school for the national airlines.  Would anyone know if they have to undergo blood tests as a part of his application process and may have screened for STDs? This is as a side note, if any one has any available information on the topic).

Please tell my about my level of risk, I'm going crazy here!!!
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Thanks, Lizzie.
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186166 tn?1385259382
then you need to follow up with a 3 month test since there is really no way of knowing exactly when it came off.

with that being said...it is HIGHLY unlikely that your 7 week negative test will change.
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No, I had to fish it out.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you stated that there may have been a second of skin to skin contact, which leads me to believe that the condom came off during withdrawal.  was the condom hanging out of you?
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Dear Lizzie,

Isn't the condom coming off during withdrawal a risk factor for bodily fluid mixing?

Thanks again.
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186166 tn?1385259382
your risk level was ZERO.

the condom came off during withdrawal and you were protected at all times.

testing is not needed.
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