Hello,
I need some clarification on some things to assist in my understanding of HIV.
I am a male who has sex with males, and the past week I had sex with an individual who I did not ask the status at the time of sex.
We did the following- make out, oral (unprotected), fingering, and I was the top in the anal sex (protected). Now, I decided to ask him the following day and he proceeded to tell me he is HIV + undetectable and that he is current with his medication.
I myself is extremely upset that he withheld the information from me. Can someone explain this to me? Should I go get tested? I am confused and scared. I can only assume that he is current, which, at this point, his creditability is worth nothing.
Advice? Anyone.