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Scared 3 weeks after very low risk

Hi all,

Imam petrified, 3 1/2 weeks ago I was drunk and web to a massage parlour in Australia saw an assume lady and got a massage with happy ending, however she also sat on my chest and I touched he anus and
Rimmed her anus with my tongue for approx 30 seconds, regret it so much, it was very clean, no blood no marks.

I asked her after wards and she said she was clean with no std's or HIV.

So I went into overdrive as I suffer OCD I ease y mount 5 mins later with orange juice, 2 weeks later and I started feeling lymph nodes in my neck, however inwas also touching and checking then ally, docs said they were not swollen just palpable, but very normal, I didn't mention the encounter 2 scared.

Now I have a small sore throat nothing bad, I have noticed twice this week I have had tonsil stones that was away after gargling never seen them before but now I'm co stanly checking, the neck I have stopped
Touching but last night I was checking for
Lymph nodes near my elbow and found a lump on each arm just above the join to the inside, probably te size of a kidney bean ad easy moved, I never checked for these before and now I have I can stop and they so hurt.

I am over weight so it may be fat cells nor sure, last night my knees an arms were aching but ok today , I have no rash, no headache, no fever, no sweats. I know it's a very very low risk some sites say no risk, but should I be concerned, are the nodes just me stressing over them, and
The tonsil stones just me checking?

Appreciate any advice I'm sick from worry, I will get checked at 6 weeks but I'm
So distraught, thanks so much for reading this long stressful post.
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You have been told several times that you never had an Hiv risk from your situation yet you insist on believing that you did.Your symptoms have nothing to do with Hiv and it,s time now to seek some professional help for your OCD.All the best.
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Hi all,

I know I've been told it's nothing, however can you please look paste the chance of infection and look at symptoms.

6 weeks now no more sore throat however my nodes in neck are palpable, 1cm I guess 2 on each side, also today under chin 1 round node 1.5cm but very sore from touching I think,

I have a few red dots around the bottom of my stomach, and very sore underarms but cannot feel any nodes by I'm overweight, I had a normal HIV test in Australia at 5.2 weeks neg. But can't get past these lymph nodes.

Please adv if this could be anything ars related, I'm sorry to post again but please post
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Move on.
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I hate to bring thus up again and do not want to get banned, however I have stopped playing with my nodes and they feel normal now

I still have a sore throat but no fever or sweats etc, however on  my gums near one back tooth I have 5 really small ulcers, could this be an ars symptom

Please don't  post no risk, just wanted to know almost 5 weeks now could 2 week long site throat and now small ulcers on 1 part of gum be ars thanks
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It,s not ARS and it has nothing to do with hiv but rather OCD.You never had an hiv risk and its time you except this fact.
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Hi again

Just need help my throat is killing me, also I've checked with a light and behind the tonsils I have flesh pinkish white spots on the back wall of my throat on top of that I have 1 on the side jus before the tonsil.

This has me freaked could this be ARS, throat is so bad

Thank
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Thanks again, today nodes in elbows still there, very sore throat. Can feel nodes in groin but I've never felt there before, also seem to have very dry hands


Is there anyway this can be ARS, any chance or cases fro
Rimming or am I being stupid?
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Thanks, just an off note can anyone else feel their nodes near elbow if they push hard, also do they swell and hurt alot if you constantly check them?

Confused4321
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You never had a risk for hiv from rimming and you can stop worrying now.Your safe.
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Would still love the above answered, but I read your profile, thanks so much for tour dedication teak
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Thanks for that, can I ask politely how you know so much about this topic?

Also the running thinking about it lasted about 1 minute, the bottom half of my stomach has been red no where else only because I'm overweight as my stomach hangs over I think, I dont want to keep posting but I want to be sure it's so stressful,

So at the moment elbow lymph nodes sore and a bit bigger, I check them alot, sore throat. Is there anyway this could be ARS, I know there are no documented cases an my OCD is bad, going to get a checkup in regards to my OCD meds this week,

Just want to be sure I haven't got HIV from rimming,

Thanks again
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You never had an exposure to HIV and you are not having ARS symptoms.
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I see your very valid point, I have read 0 documented cases
From rimming etc, however why can I noe feel the nodes in my elbow, granted never looked before but they are sore now I'm guessing from checking so much. Also not sure about tonsil stones they don't appear to be a symptom from what Ive read but still scared.

I've had diareah a few days but no where near constant, I know it's very low risk but concerning to see these symptoms in the correct timeline for ARS. Also above it wasn't assume massage worker, I meant Asian sorry.

Also feel sorr behind knees but I know I'm way over thinking

Thanks you for all and any advice
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You never had an exposure to HIV. You would be better off served on the OCD forum.
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