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Stupid night on my part but please help
OK folks please help. I had an encounter one night with a man. We had no intercourse. I was doggy style position and he just masturbated himself and came on my butt cheeks/butt. Some may have dripped down onto my butt hole and vagina. When I went to wipe with his shirt I'm worried I may have wiped some inside. He says I didn't but I'm still so scared.
I wanted to add: I was wearing a lace thong that night so also worried some could've slipped through. We had no penetration at all. Some rubbing/touching/kissing. I went yesterday to get a full std workup but I know it was too early, although the Nurse Practitioner said it's highly unlikey. What were my risks or is further testing for HIV with this exposure even necesaary? I'm still so worried some got inside more so than anything when I cleaned up.
Sorry, I know I posted somewhere else and got warned for it. For some reason it wasn't letting me post on this question from my phone until I restarted my phone. I apologize for being a nuisance.
Sorry, I know I posted somewhere else and got warned for it. For some reason it wasn't letting me post on this question from my phone until I restarted my phone. I apologize for being a nuisance.
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I'm going to repeat what I said in my first post:
There is no detail you could add to this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
There is no detail you could add to this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
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As an adult, the only risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
Nothing else you can think of, including the event you described, is a risk for HIV. Semen, once outside the body, is not infectious even if it enters your orifices. There is no detail you could add to this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
Nothing else you can think of, including the event you described, is a risk for HIV. Semen, once outside the body, is not infectious even if it enters your orifices. There is no detail you could add to this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
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Dear Ms. CurfewX, I almost want to cry thank you so much for responding. I have been up all night over all kinds of Google searches and boards and even made an appt for std testing today (this encounter was 9 days ago) because I have been paranoid with worry. No one has answered me until you. I cannot thank you enough. With all the mixed reviews online it is frightful to say the least. Like I said no intercourse happened, just came on my butt but I feared some dribbled down to entrance of anus and when I went to wipe worried that I wiped some into the vaginal opening. But your answer makes perfect sense and I am just being a worry wart.
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