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Hiv risk from this exposure please help
I’m a gay male 22 years a old I’m a virgin, last week I met a guy 43 years old after talking for couple weeks together I went to his house and we engaged in deep tongue French kissing for about 10 minutes, after that we got both naked we did body contact he licked my body and my neck nipples , after that we did mutual masturabation and he gave me some lube that he uses, he was masturbating his dick and he probably had precum and he started to jerk off my penis , he probably had precum on his hand when he touched my penis so what do you think my risk is, it’s been a week I’m really scared I don’t know if I should’ve started pep within 72 hours but now it’s too late for pep, he said he is hiv and stds negative and he got tested last year but I don’t know I rarely trust people please help me was I at risk, I’m willing to get tested when I reach my 4 weeks mark p24 antibody and antigen combo test thank you guys please help me. We didn’t do anal or oral sex just deep French kissing , body contact and mutual masturabtion could his lube contain hiv? Thank u
You had no risk and would be a waste of time. Luckily you didn't start PEP.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV. No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV. No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
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Thank you so much for your help, I appreciate it
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